My friend "You're showing so much already!! How big are you going to get?!?!" *facepalm* I'm only 18…
My friend "You're showing so much already!! How big are you going to get?!?!" *facepalm* I'm only 18 weeks, I'm sure it'll only get worse from here. Why are people so insensitive?
Jennifer Strong·
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I've had morons comes up to me saying "this is the chubbiest I've seen you," like wtf would you say that? I'm not chubby I'm pregnant, and that alone makes me even more sensitive. people wouldn't go up to fat ppl saying that why is it okay to talk to preggers like that??
Abby Mattingly·
@jstrong12712, That's horrible! I even said that I've been feeling self conscious and my friends kept making comments about my size! I know it's mostly baby but bodily changes during pregnancy are still hard to deal with.
Tiff·
Every time I stand up, my friends looks all shocked and says "every time I see you, you look more and more pregnant" one time I even told her that I really wasn't that big for how far along I am and she's like "well I guess you are small but you still just look so pregnant" like seriously might as well just tell me I'm getting fat. Idk it's like if it's because of a baby it's suddenly ok to comment a persons weight.
Abby Mattingly·
@tibi2696, Now that I'm pregnant I feel like people see me more as an object than a person.
Tiff·
I totally feel the same way, my 'bestfriend' and her husband are the worst. If I'm in any kind of pain or I'm hungry or even just tired they just laugh and say "awe poor preggers" @abbymattingly14
Abby Mattingly·
@tibi2696, Yeah, suddenly everybody feels the need to constantly being up your pregnancy and everything you say or feel is because you're pregnant. It gets old fast. haha.
Tiff·
haha ya it gets old real fast that's for sure. @abbymattingly14