I think today is going to be a 'spoil my stepson day' because his sister is going to be born any day and we've been so preoccupied I feel terrible. Plus his birth mother just had her daughter and I think he's feeling a little neglected. (She actually neglected him for a while, among other things) and I think he just needs to be reminded he's loved. Any other mamas go through this?
She didn't really care for her son. While my husband was away I had custody of our stepson because she abandoned him- and then she came to try and take him out of no where. The judge appointed me guardian an now everyone is settled with 50/50. She had her daughter like a week ago and when my husbands son came home he was sleep deprived, grimy, and just gross. Like she hasn't taken care of him since she was born. I just want him to know he's loved and cared for. Poor baby is only two.