Anyone else have issues when baby cries and someone other than you or your significant other/baby's daddy is holding baby? My husband and I couldn't soothe or daughter so his mother offered to try and listening to her scream in the other room with my mother in law, I just out right burst in to tears. I felt (read:feel) useless and kinda like I'm failing. Like I handle Wren crying a thousand times better when she's in my arms and almost that much if she's with my husband, though there are times I have trouble with that too. Am I crazy or is this normal?