so my boyfriends mom told me that her side of the family wants to do a separate baby shower for me than with my side of…

so my boyfriends mom told me that her side of the family wants to do a separate baby shower for me than with my side of the family and idk if I'm just being selfish but I find it kinda wrong to have 2 showers considering me and dakota are in a relationship so why can't we just do it together? I could see if we were broke up then his family having one for him and mine for me but idk. I guess I will just keep my mouth shut cuz I'm just kinda over her in general lately.