he would never @parkers_mommy

@abbilms00, sounds like he may need counseling to address his problems.

he took it fine, it seems like he wants to change BUT this has happened before. he changed for almost a year and then did it again. idk that he can change for good. he said when things are bad he gets tempted to look elsewhere and that's how we end up here. I said idk how he will ever not be tempted. I never even think about looking somewhere else when things get bad, I try to work on them. that's what he should've been doing not cheating. @parkers_mommy

@abbilms00, how did he take it? does it seem like he wants to change?

I did tell him that and told him if we somehow did work things out that I would NOT move back in for a WHILE. like months. I told him he needs to grow up and get his priorities in check @parkers_mommy

maybe tell him if he wants you guys back he needs to prove himself you're not just gonna run back. tell him what you have to see change before you even give it a real thought. If he isn't willing to do that then it's not worth the fight for you. but I agree your daughter does deserve a good father & a family. I hope everything works out best for you & your daughter.

I have no idea what I'm going to do. I wish it was as easy as just being like too late but its not. I can't believe I'm even considering trying to work things out someday. idk that things can even be worked out though because idk what he could ever do to make me trust him again. I was gonna leave anyways so him telling us to get out didn't matter but he still shouldn't have said it. idk. I'm an idiot for even considering it but if there is anyway that someday we could be a true family and he would change his ways for good my daughter deserves that. idk if he can change though.

Make him suffer

the fact that he did wrong && kicked you && baby out doesn't sit well with me.. so what you gonna do