about to snap.. like no other.. dogs are peeing in the house hubby watching tv. i can't stand my…

about to snap.. like no other.. dogs are peeing in the house hubby watching tv. i can't stand my house its a mess he won't help clean up. I spent last night vacumming and come down there spots in the carpet and he blames it on the dogs. my mother coming Friday and staying the night! and he can't pick up after him! on top of that I put the bag of fireplace ashes outside in a trash bag the dogs got into that he like don't blame them there digging stage.. ima snap and all hell going to break loose.