Guys I don't know what to do, well I do know what to do but what I mean is, I don't want to annoy a…
Guys I don't know what to do, well I do know what to do but what I mean is, I don't want to annoy a lot of people by making the wrong decision. My boyfriends family thinks we're too young and are like 'I don't want to be a grandparent yet' (his mum) so I'm worried that if I keep the baby it'll annoy them. But at the same time if I get rid of the baby it'll annoy my family and won't be what I want. I'm strongly against abortion, everyone is, but for my boyfriend and his family it seems to be the only option that they want. What should I do? I want the baby and my boyfriend said he'd support me no matter what, but I'm worried I'll make the wrong decision :(
clarissa·
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Do what you want to do.. my bfs dad and his grandparents told me to get an abortion.. we don't speak to them anymore.. they're having nothing to do with our daughter when she's born.. thank god all my family are happy for us. its your baby.. your choices and decisions x
Jo Fox·
don't abort the baby just to please his family. this is your child not theirs. your bf has already said he will support you and that's all you need. screw what his parents think, if they don't want to be apart of it then it's their loss hun xx
kathryn burnett·
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The baby is your baby not your boyfriends family's baby. You and your boyfriend have created a life which has a right to live. If you get an abortion I know you will regret it,there is nothing that will make you happier than having a child, it's an amazing thing.
sara·
@clarissa, @missjox @kathryn-elizabeth I don't want to get an abortion but I'm worried that if I keep the baby they won't be happy with me. Thing is they're all against abortion too, so it's like why do they want me to get rid of it? I think it's just shock personally and hopefully they'll come round. If not then idk what would happen. It is my baby and my decision and I want to keep it, but everyone keeps focusing on the negatives (his family) and no one apart from me, my mum and my nan are focusing on the positives!
clarissa·
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same here.. his nan refused to see me just wrote a letter outlining all the negatives in our life at the time and told me to get a termination, she met me twice!.. pissed me off.. listen to your mum and nan.. they're more important than his family right now x
kathryn burnett·
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It will be the shock, as soon as they see the jest scan photo they will fall in love with the baby
wildflower·
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Shame on your bf's family for getting on like they own you and can tell you what to do with your life! This is a free country last time I checked and you are free to make you're own decisions without being bullied by anyone. Surround yourself with you're own family, BF and friends who support you and people who treat you bad are not worth worrying about what they think about you! It's them that you should think badly of, getting on like bullies
melissa hazard ·
It's your baby and your body, they need to respect your decision and if they don't it just goes to show what sort of people they truly are. Who gives a rats ass if they aren't happy with you it's their loss at the end of the day. if you did get rid of the baby your the own who has to live with it for the rest of your life and why all because they didn't approve? don't let them bully you.