Kay... so.. I've got a big issue. His family is doing a baby shower... my family is doing a baby…
Kay... so.. I've got a big issue. His family is doing a baby shower... my family is doing a baby shower. not a problem, the problem comes in where two people in his family don't like each other, his uncle's wife, and his mother. His uncle's wife has been planning a shower for me for about two weeks, for in March. She was going to invite his mother and everyone else. His mom is now throwing me a shower in April.... I'm being pushed in the middle having to tell them who's throwing the shower... what the hell do I do... I'm getting to the point where I don't even want one. just bring my stuff to my apartment... jeeze...
baarky·
i never had a shower for reasons like yours. you and your baby are suppose to be in the highlight , just because they decide to throw/ organize one for you does not make it fine at all to pressure u into anything knowing all the hormones involved n its like picking favorites or in any family someone doesn't agree on something or they think there right. but if I were u id message both of them that you being the mommy shouldn't be stressed into deciding something thats for a bby that should be equally loved n accepted w.o there drama..sry but thats my opinion. lol.
baarky·
like they should get over themselves for the sake of a short time
Arielle Warner·
В ожидании первенца
Way for them to make it about them instead of you. I would chuck them both and throw my own and say they can come or not, but you're not gonna put me in the middle of your ridiculous feud and stress me out when I'm pregnant!! Smh. What a shame.
Brieana Dooley·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
tell them to do it together tell them its your shower and supposed to be a happy time to celebrate the baby and pick a theme so they dont fight over that aspect if you can get them to do it together if not pick the one who offered first
Emily·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (19 нед.)
I had one shower and I said if no one could get along then they're not coming. it's your day, not theirs. my mom and my MIL hate eachother but they got along for the fact is was my day!