I didn't look anything but bloated until about 18 weeks. Been feeling her move since about 16 but that's because I'm more uptight about my body then most. I notice the littlest changes. Sometimes, with your first you don't were actually realize what You're feeling until about 20 weeks. But if you don't feel it by 22 you need to call your doctor.
I didn't feel movement until around 20 weeks and I didn't show until 25 close to 30 weeks. so its normal. but it happens very fast one morning I just woke up and I was huge!