I wonder if people realize raising a baby is long term... It's not something you do for fun

It makes me sad to see these young teens post that they are trying for a baby, but once they are pregnant either the boyfriend splits or they are left wandering who is going to help pay for the baby's needs or who is going to watch the baby while they finish school. I was a single teen mom and I know the struggle. I worked my butt off to get where I am and it took me years. I had to grow up real quick. It's not all fun and games.

@junebaby, exactly I just wonder if they really know .

amen!! idk if they think it's a joke, but babies cost money... like really get your life together. Get a degree to provide first. Then think about a baby or even how to become pregnant. If I could take things back when pregnant young definitely 1, would of gotten my degree first. 2, married or stable. smh.. it just annoying and I even wonder what if it's a fake person again... with all the non sense and questions

@mrsruvalcaba, same here like I'm not judgmental but at the same time I do wonder what people think sometimes or do they even think about to long term rather than just right now because even with help its hard

I know right. Even when your pregnant is hard let alone raising a baby. They should really educate them self's first. Because by the end of the day that baby is human not a toy.. @riairene

these posts are so dreary, sorry but marriage isn't shit, there is always the possibility of divorce...things are never set in stone except baby, you could do everything "right" and still get screwed. it's true you should do everything you can to give your baby the best possible chance of a happy fulfilling life but really a marriage or degree doesn't mean much.