Since our son has been born my boyfriend has been spending all of his free time playing his stupid…

The more u show him you're frustrated, the more he will do it. I hate it but that's how some guys are. Show him u don't care and ur good without his help and can care less and watch him chase u. I swear it's a freakin game. I Dno why it has to be so complicated

Wow some men are just so into video games they get lost in another world... If it were me I would unplug the cords in the back and put them away n try to sit down and talk to him when you have his attention.. I know the feeling.. You just had a baby and you want love and attention.. Try n see what happens Good Luck huney 😉💕

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Don't let it get to yu hunny bun if he decided to stay up knowing tht it's something he needs to do in the morning that requires him to get up early then that's his problem..I say still wake him up make sure he's fully awake and make him drive there and back..while your at the appt make him do all the hard wrk while you sit around and relax but mostly communicate with him-tell him the truth and don't hold back nothing-if he's mature enough he will respond wisely enough to solve the problem and make things better but if not you did your part and voiced your side of the problem and show on him tht yu care and want things to change !!

@amg2469, @freckles30 @mmmirage he's gotta drive & do everything anyways. I haven't been cleared by my doctor to drive or even carry the car seat. He's told me the heaviest thing I can pick up is my son. I can't even push a vacuum cleaner. I had a c section & I also have a pelvic kidney (the reason for the c section) & my doctor doesn't want me injuring myself doing too much. He told me I'd take longer to heal because of my medical problem. He said that if it wasn't for dip & his video games that he would've lost his mind by now. I've already cried because of lack of sleep & him sleeping through the baby crying so I lose sleep. I would do anything for my son, obviously & yes he does help but doesn't even think of spending time with me. He hasn't wanted too since our son was born. It hurts my feelings, he doesn't really even kiss me like he use too because he said "we can't have sex so I can't kiss you like I use too" which wasn't sexually just felt like he actually loved me. Now I get little pecks on the lips & cheek.

& since I've had our son I feel so bad about myself. My stomach looks so gross & I feel so unattractive. We actually went to his first pediatrician visit a few days ago & I swear everyone who works there looks like they came straight out of a magazine & I told my boyfriend that, he agreed which I wasn't upset about, what I got upset about was he singled out this blond receptionist & was getting kinda flirty with her without even realizing it. sorry for my long rant, I have no one to talk too.

my husband does that occasionally and i take all the cords and controllers and hide them if he wants to act childish he'll be treated like a child. he usually straightens up afterward

Sweetheart things will get better... I have 3 girls and after each pregnancy I used to look at myself like i was fat and i didn't like to see myself with nothing on but it gets toned after a few weeks and you start to feel better about yourself but dont be to hard on yourself. You just had the baby so give yourself time to get used to all the changes that are going on with your body. Your bf needs to be more understanding and help you through this instead of playing video games and flirting.. He needs to put his attention to you and your feelings and the baby.. If I were you I would put the whole game system away.. He needs to grow up from video game world and pay attention to the woman that he is with and his baby boy. Your a beautiful woman dont feel like your not and you have a gorgeous son... keep your head up things will get better 😘

You have to express yourself to him! If you make it easy on him by doing everything without insisting he help you or at least suggesting he will continue to do what he's doing! I'll be praying for you baby girl! 😘