if you were to tell you're parents in a letter, what would you say? I've put this off too much and i…

I wrote a letter and I explain that it was a mistake but it was in god plans to help me stay out the street and focus on my future for me and my child..( and if your like me this my first and all my friends have like three so I did pretty good) and your going to continue to extend your education and whatever else you need to do for you and your bad and you hope their not mad

Thank you @mariahappy

awe do you think your parents are going to be upset with you? :(

@mrs.aceves, yeah, they probably will be. I'm almost 19 and this is my second baby. I still live with my mom (I pay her rent and we split the cost of utilities) but I think she'll be mad and I just don't want conflict.

I know this sounds bad but I'm just going to text my MIL after we tell my mom. she's an alcoholic and that's even worse confrontation. last time she screamed in my face and called me a whore. like they both deserve to know but I'm an adult and make my own choices. ya know?

I totally get it! tell them however you feel is less confrontational. you dont need to deal with the extra stress everyone else wants to put on you

girl you pay rent? in that case I'd move out... you're 19 but you're paying the full rent && only split utilities? that's a total jip!! if she was paying everything then I can understand her being upset but look like you taking care of mom not the other way around!

&& then if she call you a whore && get all disrespectful like that. I'd say well let me whore myself out this apt -& you can figure out how to pay your own rent!

@sexii_diiva, yeah we want to move but we have no rental history and no credit so it's been hard trying to find a place. and it's my MIL who calls me a whore, we don't live with her thank god. but we go over there for dinner about once a week so she can see paisley because my mom and MIL Hate eachother. my boyfriend says he rather wait till we Learn the gender to announce it but I feel that's waiting too long. I'm already 17 weeks

@mrs.aceves, thank you. yeah I think it's the best that way she can read and think to herself and whatnot

@emilyyy96___ well someone will eventually accept y'all.. it will come see sooner then you know.. && if your a whore then what does that make her son? hmmmm... but any whom you should find out the sex soon anyway... but I totally understand because that's hard to keep a secret!

Yeah we find out the sex the first week of February I just feel like that's so far away lol. and yeah she doesn't put 2 and 2 together. I've only been with one person my whole life and we've been together for 3 years lol. @sexii_diiva

I agree with everything @sexii_diiva said

@emilyyy96___ girl Feb is a long time from now. lol that's my due date month && it seems so close but yet so far @mrs.aceves 😉