This is our first month ttc @clover14leaf, we've already got a 3 yr old boy so we're excited to start trying for baby #2! I completely agree, we were really blessed to fall pregnant within 3 cycles last time, but now I'm getting a little older I'm guessing this time around might not be quite so simple!!

that makes perfect sense @relly take out the stress and it'll happen naturally! Sorry to hear about your ectopic but lovely to know that you are having another now- congratulations! I hope you enjoy a nice healthy pregnancy too! xx

@whanau, We've been married for 9 months now and we've basically been trying since then; but only in the last couple of months have we been really 'focused' on it, if that makes sense? We've been eating healthily, exercising, taking all the right supplements etc and carefully tracking my periods (how sexy! lol!) so hopefully this time will be the one. Surely if we have sex every other day for a month we will get there?! lol! Anyway, I'm feeling more positive today...I guess the less pressure we put on ourselves, the healthier everything will be. How long have you been ttc @whanau ? xx

5 years later I had an ectopic left with one tube, I accepted my chances were much thinner and said to myself ok I have a boy and a girl I will just focus on work . Now I am 5 months preggs and am still trying to get used to the idea of having a baby, although my ectopic would have been due anyday now!

It happened to me, I was trying for a year and taking pregnancy tests obsessively twice a week until I decided maybe having a baby now it's not meant to be. And out of the blue I missed my period took test and was positive, it was the last thing I expected and was so shocked.x

Good luck, we're ttc too at the moment and so I know how easy it is to get down about it! How long have you been trying for if you don't mind me asking? x

Thanks so much @whanau I'm trying to keep positive-like you say, we're doing all we can but obviously it's just timing. thanks for your sweet words and for your support! xxx

Don't think of it as a negative, think of it as day 1 of what could be your successful cycle. its easy to get disheartened but try & think positive as your doing all the right things to make your body a healthy home for when it does happen xxx