I did something bad ladies 😁 i had sex with my boyfriend before my 6 weeks and it hurt soo bad im scared but i feel ok. My boyfriend was coming on to me because he felt bad about yesterday and just took it so it was hard to stop it lol
@mrssabby, im sorry i dont believe that im not convinced i think im going to be ok
@deanna, lol I ain't trying to be graphic but think of it this way, if you've ever performed oral sex from start to finish, at the beginning when you start there is fluid that seeps out and that is precum, but after you've been going for awhile and they get to the point where things heat up fluid semen starts to seep out its actually sperm In that fluid and then maybe about 5 mins later they fully cum and all the sperm comes out in the semen, I'm just saying be careful, I know give women that have kids back to back because of the withdrawal method and doing it right after labor lol
@kgonza87, i dont think one time will hurt me feel ok today i was worried my cervix may be hurt by doing that. And i dont think im pregnant but there has been times when my bf just didnt feel like pulling out cause it feels good so thats what scares me and thats how we just end up not caring anymore and had our son
@mrssabby, im sorry i dont believe that i did my own research a long time ago with my first boyfriend. There are no evidence shown that it does get you pregnant. Its not sperm at all but a clear liquid that helps move sperm when its that big moment
@deanna, be careful honey because, it is true Pre cum can get you pregnant all in the same and as far as the pull out method goes while your having sex their penis starts pushing out fluid way before they even ejaculate that's how women get pregnant, yeah they pull out and you miss the big bursts but little burst happen too, just be careful especially if your not on birth control or breastfeeding
no its not google it sperm including pre cum lives up to three days in you so its just as easy i learned that from my doctor but i was just saying.
@sammie_bell, it is least likely to get pregnant with pre cum because its just the liquid to make sperm easy to push through the male urethra
I didn't even want a penis near me haha. my incision had reopened and the Dr's forgot my placenta so they had to put me back in labor a week after I had my baby to try and deliver the placenta that was like rotting inside me. so I has internal and external infections but me and s/o only do the Deed once a month now. it sucks but oh well lol.
pre cum can get you pregnant just as fast as the full thing and at this point it will be kinda easy because your dropping eggs so be careful unless your ok with being pregnant again
@kgonza87, no he used the pull out method and after a year of dating me he stopped doing it because i wasnt getting pregnant at first but i had a very early miscarriage and didnt realize it before
@mom2be, well he said everything felt normal down there but im going to wait the other days now i dont want to over do it
Just check in two weeks that you ain't prego. Was it easy to get prego the first time?
@kgonza87, i just dont want to get pregnant and i dont want to rip open lol
lol i understand. i'm only 2 weeks postpartum and it feels like it's been months. it's hard as hell to not have sex, expecially when you feel healed already. @deanna
I waited till my 6 week lol. I had a csection though and felt like I was dying. I had a 6 week and 8 week apt
Don't feel bad everyone does it before 6 weeks! I didn't wait with my first after 3 weeks we did it.
@deanna, lmao I ended up doing it too, I was like had a csection so its not that bad but it was a little painful. We were suppose to wait!