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Deanna
deanna
Deanna
My man keeps watching porn and im upset cause he lied about it and i know he has because i heard him jerking off and i saw the stains the next day. Am i doing to much by being upset? I mean six weeks is not too long i have no choice but to wait. And this been going on since i was prolly 6 months pregnant so it's ruining my confidence
07.01.2015
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mrssabby
mrssabby
@deanna, aww don't let it ruin your confidence, me and my husband made a deal because of me being in bed jail and on pelvic rest and that deal was that whatever I needed to do to give him some sexual relief and gratification I would do, he's never gotten crazy or never asked every day but there has been times where he's asked me to kiss it, or jack him off, I do it with no problem because it keeps him intimate with me, not the tv and plus me are nasty sexual beast regardless if we like it or believe it they just are and no matter how much the claim sex ain't an issue it is they think about it night and day and they watch us 24/7 as we walk, clean, sleep, bend over etc....,
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deanna
deanna
@18andpregnant, this is way for a long time i question did i really want to be serious with a man because they are not understanding sometimes but we need them in ares of our lives
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nathaneals_mommy
nathaneals_mommy
exactly my point. they sure in the hell wouldn't like to walk in on us doing our thing to some guy in a computer screen.
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deanna
deanna
@18andpregnant, we get horny too but its not like we have to watch naked men to play with ourselves
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deanna
deanna
@kaity0117, we did he promise me he wouldn't do it again and i dont believe him because he lied then got mad about it. I really thought about leaving him because this is the third time he lied about something soo small to tell me when i know the truth. How can i trust him with anything else? Like with real woman on hes social media page which i dont have none and never seen his.
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nathaneals_mommy
nathaneals_mommy
@deanna, I mean I get your horny. but I send you pics allll the time. jack off Idgaf but please don't do it to other girls ya know. its wrong.
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kaity0117
kaity0117
I had this problem with my boyfriend. I sat down and talked to him. Explained to him that I'd rather him ask me to help him out and have a shower together so I can be the one to play with him or in bed... But the porn thing really bothered me because I was comparing myself to those girls and it hurts! Some woman are okay with it and might even join in with the watching but I just compare myself to them and it makes me insecure. Talk to him, tell him how his actions make you feel and discuss what you can do as a couple to change that. Me and my boyfriend have an arrangement and he will ask me to "service him" (lol weird term) and I will do it if I feel okay and if I don't there has been once or twice he just went and handled himself (to pictures of me) and came back a happy man. But that's something you really need to explain to him... Whether it hurts you, makes you insecure, makes you jealous or all of the above! He's your man and he should be willing to come up with a compromise!
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deanna
deanna
@mandi0101111, i dont want him touching himself at all i want to be the one to make him finish all the time
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deanna
deanna
@14emathews, yea that it but to me it is cheating mentally. How can you love someone but you want to watch another woman naked. I dont want to see another penis his is enough for me. There has to be one guy that doesnt do this and understand it's hurtful
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deanna
deanna
@sinabear, im scared to go through his phone because i dont want to feel even more hurt. When i saw it on my computer it was heart breaking to see what he was into
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deanna
deanna
@18andpregnant, on thanksgiving though?!?! Thats so disrespectful wtf lol thats not even cool on any day but not the holidays!!
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14emathews
14emathews
I have yet to catch my man in the act but it'll probably hurt me a little bit too. the thought of my man jerking off to porn is making my stomach uneasy. it shouldn't be that easy for men to watch bimbos and get excited by that. I remember one time my man tried getting me to watch guy porn and I wasn't into it at all! I do agree its better than cheating but its still a dissapointment
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mandi0101111
mandi0101111
personally I don't let my man watch porn I get upset too it's like after being with him for so long I only have eyes for him I feel it should be the same. he doesn't anymore but some time I catch him jerking off to me when I'm sleeping that I don't mind much. because he is thinking of me.
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sinabear
sinabear
@deanna, so yeah ma...i feel you! i walked in on him the other day while he was taking a bath and he quickly tried to hide his phone....really dude fuck that 🙅
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deanna
deanna
@sinabear, smh yea girl i know just nasty
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