Having a baby changes the relationship entirely. I might as well be single. I have to watch her all day while he's at…

That is not okay.

I get that he works, but where am I supposed to get sleep in, if I have to watch her all day AND night? Its 5am here, and I've been up since 6am yesterday. I'm starting to get delirious 😰 @wrens_mommy

The thing is: you work too. You work on taking care of that little girl's every need all day. it's draining and hard. You deserve rest as much as he does and he needs to understand you can't "turn off" being a dad because your girlfriend/fiance/wife stays at home with the baby and you're tired. Have you tried explaining to him that if you can't have a little time to rest and care for your needs, you can't properly care for the baby?

Oh yeah, there's been an argument or two. But his response "I'm tired." Plus he'll just keep on sleeping. Its whatever, if it continues like this the rest of the week, my mom has a room set up for me and baby girl. Can't believe this is happening to me....we have always been best friends, and understanding.... then suddenly he's different.

That is ridiculous. I'm so sorry. I live with my MiL at the moment and I'd my husband acted like that, she'd probably beat him senseless. I hope you can at least get some rest when the baby does today and that things start going better for you. Also, maybe staying with your mom for a short while would be a wakeup call for him.

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same here -.- I'm taking care of the baby all day and all night when he works. but atleast in his days of he helps with the baby so I can sleep in.. doesn't really help tho cause I'm constantly worrying :p

i just had my baby too....her daddy works during the day so i watch her all day and night too. ive learned to just nap when baby does. i totally understand the sleepless nights...if i wake him up to watch her(so i can pee) or whatever reason as soon as i come back shes right back in my arms. which is ok. but idk sometimes i wish he would spend more time with her&me;. its hard getting no sleep. im sorry girl :/

Welcome to being a parent. It's not always fair!

my hubby use to be like that with my first born then started changing with my 2nd and with my 3rd he helped out so much now I know he will be helping with the 4th he even says it.

I guess all guys go thru the phase.

hang in there. try to work through it together. praying for you

Hang in there hun, talk to him about it, tell him how you feel just be honest hope you guys work things out for the best of your baby....

Thank you mommies. I've been getting what little rest I can. On 27 hours no sleep so far. Just hope I can make it till he gets home, I feel crazy, and can barely hold my eyes open, that's what scares me the most.

Hang in there. It does get better. My hubby works nights so I can stay and be home with my boys so I know his busting his ass. Regardless he still manages to help with everything... Believe I know its hard but just talk to him and hope all goes well