I'm so tired of my mother screaming at me threatening to smash my face in -.- excuse me if I just…

ummm she needs some issue help lol its not ok for her to do that

my mom nags me too when i complain to her about pains or nausea..she always said i worked a full time job with both my pregnancies i didnt lay around bla bla.. I'm like have a seat I'm not you and that was like back in 1903 girl woo

@isabellasmommy2015, I agree completely. she doesn't dare go to counseling for anger management as she swears she has none and they're all cracked in the head. I really need a job so I can move into my condo

omg @tattooedwho my mom does the same thing! shell always say when I was pregnant with you and your sister I worked full time and came home and did everything around the house. blah blah blah. um I'm 18 she was 40.

and now she's upstairs screaming at me that I'm on my phone. she says I have one hour to clean my room and I simply respond I know and she holds up a fist and says I swear one more time you're gonna get it with you and your bitchy mouth. we should've left her in Florida. I want her to leave me alone :'(

That's really verbally abusive...! Like a lot! And the damage that can be by verbal abuse is being found to be just as damaging if not more than physical and sexual abuse. You need to get out of there and quickly. Even if you have to get social assistance to do it just move out. Go to a women's safe house! Anything. I don't have a mom like that but I do have a sister who was like that for a long time. It's hard and unpleasant. It's scary. I have anxiety and depression issues and I have been able to move forward only because I separated myself from the problem. If you have a friend or anything just move out. I hope your mom gets some help. That's not right and you really don't want your child growing up in an environment like that

@kaity0117, I suffer from anxiety and depression myself. I have a condo that is mine but my parents won't let me move in there until I have a job. and if you catch up with my postings when I got home the other day around 3:10am they took away all my driving privileges too until I have a job. :( my mother hasn't liked the fact that I've been pregnant since the beginning. she makes sure I know I'm "an embarrassment to the family" and "a fuck up". I'm quickly coming to the terms that once July is here and my little baby comes I don't want her around my little one. and I sure as hell am not going to treat my child the way she treats me and I'm never going to do that comparison crap of "if my mother was your mother you would've been slapped silly"

how csn she stop you? ur 18...is her name on the condo too?

yeah were all on the deed. and she refuses to let me and my boyfriend move in until I have a job to pay bills @tattooedwho. and now she demands that I get out of my bed and sit downstairs. she also demands that I do her laundry! if I don't she's going to call the phone company and have them turn off my phone. she then brings up my baby and I tell her I want her to have nothing to do with my child and she says well fine I was going to charge you money anyways to watch it while you went to work and school. her philosophy is that because I'm not enrolled in school right now and I'm desperately applying for jobs that I am to do work around her house

I get nightmares every night!! 😪

@tgeezy they are awful!! so yes I'm tired during the day and just want to rest in bed and sleep but NOPE

Your parents can't tell you what to do. But you really should go see what your options are :) i wouldn't stick around that's for sure. Your not an embarrassment... She is. A mother is supposed to be supportive and loving. My mom took a while to accept that I was pregnant but she still brought us groceries and was friendly. She said she wished this would have happened when we were better established but she would never call me an embarrassment. That's just cruel.

@kaity0117, I just wish I had a job so I can leave. she's out of the house right now but shell return eventually :/ I also wish my car was out of the shop so I can go to a friends for a few hours or be with my man after his basketball practice

Can your man get a job until you find one? Then maybe you and him could move into that condo you were talking about?

@kaity0117 he's currently a senior in high school and on the varsity basketball team. there's literally no room in his schedule. :/ finishing high school is important and second semester has just started so he's almost done. I wish basketball didn't tie up his schedule daily. I think his coach is a pompous ass and isn't understanding of our needs right now. thankfully there's like a month and a half left of basketball. but then again I have a baby doctor appointment on Thursday at 3:30 which he's out of school by then and I really want him to come but he has practice since its the day before a game and its just frustrating