rant sorry, so my bf mom hates me but thats besides the main point. i cant stand how he tells her…
rant sorry, so my bf mom hates me but thats besides the main point. i cant stand how he tells her everything. like if we buy something she knows, if we pay a bill she knows all about it (total, when, n where it was due), if we get paid (total, hours, everything on the paystub), if we go out to eat, i mean EVERYTHING! its not like we arent resposible n dont know how to take care of our bills n money, bc we have been living on our own for 2+ years!! I keep telling him he needs to stop bc she just judges us off all that and that its OUR business not hers too. shes always in our business and whem people n i get mad he acts like he is annoyed by it too at times but damn its his fault! leave her out of it!!! and on top of this all he walks to the other room to talk to his mom so he can tell her shit! hes almost 21 n still tries to be babied by that lady!!! she only gets in our business bc she needs to know everyones shit in order to be alive i swear!
Mylina·
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He needs to stop that cause that can ruin alot. Especially since he grown and she needs to stop being in y'all business cause she is not living with y'all. He gotta grow up and quit doing that y'all bouta have a baby and I'm sure you don't want her telling you how to raise your child
kati·
exactly! honestly im having a hard time even being ok with her getting updates on how my pregnancy is going n letting her be a grandma after stuff she said to me n all, but he just asked why i was mad n i told him n he said dont u want ur daughter telling u everything when shes our age....i mean yeah n somethings but not her bills n money n her living unless she is struggling. everyone has to grow up at some point. @lee_nuhh he acts likei m saying cut her off which im not at all!
Mylina·
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Right. I mean you gotta let your kids grow up eventually and do their own shxd but judging everything they do is wrong. And he should talk to her about the way she treats you cause after all you are the one pushing her out so he should have his mother respect you way more
kati·
we have been together 3 years dB n he finally one day about 2 months ago stood up n said she needs to respect me n get along n she snapped n they stopped talking for a week then she called to say sorry n well everything went back to how it was before. hee thinks standing up for HIS soon to be family to his mom or anyone is rude, no one said to be rude about it! @lee_nuhh
lulu·
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kati·
oh yeah one day he called from work n i said tell me anything u want for dinner n ill make it so i went out of my way completely cleaned house n made his dinner choice n then he calls saying hes going to eat at her house like wtf, also for thanksgiving we had to spend it seperated bc of her not liking me. im not doing seperated holidays every holiday once our daughter is here bc we r a family now. @estrellitah
lulu·
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kati·
im never invited to his moms side so its always a fight about that. he needs to realize she didnt lay down with us to make a baby so she doesnt need to know it all, n she doesnt live with us n help pay bills so she doesnt need to know that, and she use to be on his bank account n could see everything well i had him take her off when she treatened to take my money bc im "trash" so now she constantly ask n he of course tells her. @estrellitah
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Mylina·
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Yeah it's not being rude it's just standing up for your family. I had to do that to my mom cause she kept disrespecting my fiance and now she doesn't say a bad thing about him now.
Mylina·
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But I hope everything goes well for you guys though
kati·
yeah i in did it to my mom and dad for him at one point and thank you @lee_nuhh n when he is with n them he ignores my calls n text bc once he asnwered and she started yelling that im trash n n a slut n blah blah, honestly if it doesnt change by feb when baby is due im done being put last. i also told him his mom wont see my daughter tell she can show me respect n he gets mad by that but says he understands but i have a feeling he will call his mom into the hospital or try to sneak my daughter to her house. all i can say is if she shows up at the hospital i wont allow her in room n my family wont be to happy with her since they first hand witnessed how she treats me. @estrellitah
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Mylina·
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Your welcome girl and I feel you on that. But stay strong