Vent.. I'm afraid that after I have the baby my bf won't view me sexually anymore. In the past he…

This is definitely a conversation you should bring up with him. Just sit down with him and explain what your worried about. My body has been completely changed and i am also concerned about my sweetheart being attracted to me afterwards but I know he loves me and when I spoke to him about it, he made me feel better :) pregnancy isn't all beautiful and I think we all know that... Even if your body doesn't return to its former shape and look... Maybe he will like the new look even better! I'm sure there are lots of postpartum things we can do to restore our bodies :) 38 weeks today!! Two weeks to go! Your gorgeous so I don't see why he ever look past you :)

yea you're right.. I just don't wanna hear the bs oh babe don't worry I actually wanna talk about it. @kaity0117

Then make sure he knows that this is not just a fluffy "oh I thought about this once for a second" kind of thing... He needs to know that this is a real concern for you and as a man he should be able to reassure you. I asked my man to remind me every once in a while!! Because of my depression and anxiety I need it! Men aren't the brightest and sometimes you have to spell it out for them VERY SLOWLY for them to understand. They just don't think like we do! Just tell him before you even bring up your concerns that this is a big deal to you and you'd really appreciate it if he really listened to you. And i hope he does :) I used to think I was super overweight before I was pregnant and now... Hell I feel like a giant whale out of water!!! I gained more than I should have and I feel massive! My boyfriend has done a good job and calming me down about it though so I appreciate that. But really just make him listen. This is a real fear and as someone who loves you he should help rid you of your fears :)

This might sound crazy but honestly, the best way to keep a man in line is to keep his mind busy. Don't ever let him think he's got you secured because thats when they start roaming around, it sounds crazy but its very effective. You might think "oh I shouldn't have to do that, he should be with me regardless" but the truth is, all men are this way, sadly. So we have to make some sacrifices sometimes and work for what we want. This is just my personal opinion though.