My boyfriends mom never includes me in anything, she always comes to town and takes him out to lunch…
My boyfriends mom never includes me in anything, she always comes to town and takes him out to lunch and I'm never invited. My mom always invites my boyfriend to things though, so that he feels included. Like now, it's Christmas eve and she came and took him out to eat and didn't even invite me, so I'm just sitting home alone. that's fine though, I just think it's a little rude. & then for my baby shower she didn't even stay the whole time, she was there for like an hour and it was 3 hours long. She and her friend " had things to do" but I know it was nothing important and only because she drove with her friend. just 3 hours out of her whole day and she had known for months and she couldn't even stick around the whole time. She also never offered to help pay for anything, my mom threw the whole thing and my mom isn't in the greatest position financially, whereas his mom is and definitely could have helped or offered. maybe I'm selfish but I just think she should try to be nicer or have more of a relationship with me, I'm dating her son and carrying her grandchild. I don't think that's too much to ask for. She could even just come to our house and hang out but she chooses to only see my boyfriend. rant over.
missing51user·
dont beat your self up over it, I have the same problem with my sons "grandmother" I can't stand her but I'm over her & wanting to be friends. she acts like I don't exist & she's not even excited for her FIRST grandchild I can't stand the lady but at the end of the day my son has a grandma (my mom) so I really don't need her for crap. & neither do you! it would be nice tho to have a relationship with her just so its not all weird all the time.
abbigail·
this is my boyfriends mom's first grandchild too but she definitely doesn't seem very interested, whereas my mom is over the moon. I was even in the hospital for preterm labor 3 weeks ago and my mom called off work to come visit and his mom didn't bother coming to see me. She had a teddy bear sent to me but I think it was more of a "I'm gonna do this to make myself look good" than a "i want to do this." it's just annoying. sorry you have to deal with the same thing, it's pretty ridiculous. @january10th
Jewls C Williams·
Talk to her see if she has a issue with u if he's the only boy that's ur issue right there some moms get jealous of girlfriends
missing51user·
my mom is the same she over excited she even bought the baby toys before we even knew what it was. & this will be her 6th grandchild. sons "grandmother" went as far as telling his father not to buy any thing for him till I was 8 months pregnant. because I could still lose him great right!? idk I can't stand the lady but she says she has not problem with me. I haven't seen her since I was about 16 weeks pregnant & when we go to her house i sit in the car. I hate dealing with it but idc anymore its her loss not mine you know?
abbigail·
he's an only child, and I'm not comfortable enough with her to talk to her about it. She holds his hand and constantly tells him she loves him and stuff, to me it's weird but maybe it's just because I'm not used to seeing someone act like that. I've talked to my boyfriend about her not including me in things and just told him that she doesn't like me and he just brushes me off and says "yes she does babe." I care, but then again I don't. I could definitely see her being jealous though, he moved out because of me, he's 22 now (moved out at 21) but she probably woukdve let him live there forever if he wanted to. @madisonmom