Excuse me while I whine/rant for a second. My husband has no connection with our daughter. I…
Excuse me while I whine/rant for a second. My husband has no connection with our daughter. I understand she's still in my belly but I just feel like he should be more connected. Especially with how connected my dad is to my belly. He's always talking to Skylar and getting her to move and everything. Hubby never even brings her up. And I just feel like he's been really distant lately. The only time he gets close to me and lovey is if he wants sex. If I tell him no he'll stop being sweet and gets agitated. He doesn't tell me he loves me anymore. Or even goodnight. I just want him to hold me and just cuddle and kiss me. If I get upset about anything he says. He says I'm being whiny:/ and that he was joking and I have no reason to be upset. Ugh I just don't know what to do. All I wanna do is curl up in a ball and cry
Jewls C Williams·
Give him time to adjust I felt the same about my child father they don't connect like we do it all to be a dream to them untill they see the child now if he don't change after then that another beast
Victory Lenard·
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That's what I'm scared about :/
Victory Lenard·
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@masisonmom,
Kaitlin·
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You need to talk to him now... Tell him what you just told us.. He might just be scared about becoming a dad and doesn't know how to express himself. Maybe to him talking to her in your belly makes it real and that scares him. Tell him that it's making you worried and it hurts your feelings that he only comes to you for sex. A lot of guys don't express what's going on with them because they might seem "weak" it took me a long time to get my boyfriend to get excited and it wasn't until he knew it was okay to show he was afraid in front of me that he got really excited!
Jewls C Williams·
U just have to take it one day at a time
Victory Lenard·
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@kaity0117, I've tried talking to him:/ he says that it's not true. That he doesn't only come to me for sex and that I'm just over thinking things and being whiny and blah blah blah
Kaitlin·
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Well then he's just being an ass. I would just let him know that if his attitude doesn't change after she comes that you will have to live separately. It's not right for him to treat you like that
Lala·
If he is not catering to your emotions then you need to stop showing them to him! Don't be whiny even if you feel like it and express to him how you feel in a strong non argumentative tone. If you do not show him that you are not accepting this behavior its only going to get worse! Time to man up sweetheart and let him realize that you're not going to be pushed around or ignored! You can do this with love and without weakness! 😤Keep this face on the entire time