yep that's smart I'm not playing with nobody lol @alhynele

@tattooedwho, that's my plan when it comes to pediatricians lol. I have a list of all the ones in our area and I'm going to meet a few of them, organize them by favorite and see from there. If one doesn't work I will move down the list.

right and I'm not about to argue with them so I just switched to an actual doctor and hopefully she's nicer or at least fakes it or I'll be switching again I got a whole list of em lol @alhynele

I totally understand. The times that I've had scares and called my midwives they have always met me at the hospital and did the necessary tests. (That's how I found out the baby's gender early) lol your midwife is supposed to meet u in hospital for these things. So yeah I would be pissed to. Like what are they there for then?

@alhynele,

I've been bleeding alot this pregnancy which freaks me out because I've had two miscarriages previously, and I just feel like they don't care.. and i understand bleeding in pregnancy is normal sometimes but I should not be in the ER hemmoraging and no one can tell me why, no one runs tests, just nothing. and all they can say well some bleeding is normal...and I'm like OK so me bleeding a small river from my vag is completely normal.. cool. I'm just over it and them. And even if it is nothing I feel like they could show a little concern or something. I've been diagnosed with a subchorionic Hematoma, which basically is a hemmorage in my uterus or placenta (which is why I miscarriaged in August) so yes I'm terrified to know i have it again because it could result in another. and they just have done nothing... and looking online lots of medical professionals recommend best rest for women with subchorionic Hematoma which is not what I want but if Itll save me another miscarriage then I'd do it but they just said pelvic rest... which means no sex or tampons... and I'm like why the fuck would I use a tampon and i havent had sex since I found out I was pregnant so obviously pelvic rest isn't the damn answer... I'm just done with them lol sorry to ramble

What did they do to piss u off?

My midwives are super awesome. Even my husband trusts them. Lol which is saying a lot. But luckily I see both my midwives and an OB so even if they were slacking I would still have my doctor.