I just need an opinion here. I'm not bashing my hubby, I love him, and he's been great (mostly)…
I just need an opinion here. I'm not bashing my hubby, I love him, and he's been great (mostly) through this pregnancy. But when a doctor writes me a LIMITED prescription to last me these last 10 days, to relieve my back aches/spasms, don't you think its a bit low, and inconsiderate that he would take my pills without even asking me first? They can't mess you up, they just help you to relax. Which he has no problem relaxing on his own. I can barely get him to take the trash to the road on time. Plus he plays his games, and gets his special time. Not to mention I've begged for months now for him to clean the yard. So am I wrong for being completely pissed off about him stealing my medicine, that has to last me 10 days, but now it won't because he took some? We're in our 20's, I find it completely childish that I have to hide my medication around the house, from him 😠😠😠
amber·
no you have every right to be upset
Lala·
That would be conversation worthy! Have you spoken to him about it?
iisavana·
Мама подростка
This isn't the first time he's taken medication from me. It really doesn't bother me, he's the last person on earth to get addicted to anything, but he should have asked me. This time its more upsetting because its time framed for my induction. I plan to speak to him tonight about it, I wanted to calm down, and think about it before I jumped him about it @babyboolala
Mrs.Pin to you 😉·
В ожидании первенца
yea he is wrong for that. ...he needs to ask. .. that's rude
iisavana·
Мама подростка
That's how I feel, I guess the hormones don't really help either. I just feel insecure about it; Why wouldn't he just ask me? Why steal it, when all he had to do was ask? Even though I would have said no, because I only have enough to last me till my induction. But he sees me crying and upset about my back, he even gets mad because I'm in so much pain, but still takes my medicine from me, behind my back. I feel really betrayed 😢
Lala·
That's a good idea! Sit down and calm yourself first! I don't think he means any harm., I think he's just feeling that since it was never a problem before it wouldn't be a problem now. Sometimes others don't think as far ahead as preggie women do. 😊If you pray, pray about it & ask God to help you with what to say because that way you know it'll go over right when it comes out! Praying with you!
Lala·
As far as your feelings of betrayal, we hope that is just the hormones however you know him better than any of us do! If you feel he was sneaky about it that kind of makes it look like there's a different problem going on...