Day 8; Birth plan. I want just my fiancé and myself in the room. I want my baby to room in with me. Epidural all the way! No pacifiers, sugar water or anything else given to my son before I begin breastfeeding. No pictures or vids of the actual birth process lol
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
My bf aunt wants to be in the delivery room when I give birth but I only want my bf in there . Is that rude ?
One thing I refuse to do is share a room after I give birth ... Being in a room with another mom and her baby after I just gave birth ? Hell no ! I want my privacy! I will tour every hospital out here if I have to 🤔
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
Delivery room
Who all are you having in the room with you while giving birth?