Ok this might be TMI but i think i have hemorrhoids! My but hurts so bad when i sit for a long time,…

Ok this might be TMI but i think i have hemorrhoids! My but hurts so bad when i sit for a long time, when i walk, when i use thr bathroom. its just so painful. i dont see any but thats what my family keeps telling me that its hemorrhoids. It sucks because i heard that if u have them it makes giving birth way more painful 😳😟 Does anyone else have this problem or know how to relieve the pain please help lol 🙏