Just got word that my son's biological father is incarcerated.. minimum sentence 15 years.. that is…

Aww im very sorry. But don't look at it like that... guys say and do anything to make themselves seem like they are good guys. My dads a piece of shit and i don't hate my mom for choosing him i respect her for leaving and taking care of me the best she could! Your son will respect you because you did what was best for him. Unlike some women who stay with pieces of shit just to say they have someone.

@ftmommie2015, that's exactly what his ex did and they have 2 girls together and their daughters have watched him beat the hell out of her and she has the nerve to come after me saying I'm a skank and that my son isn't his... okay my son is half black and he was the only black buy I was with so explain that.. and my son looks just like him.. besides the point.

But my dad is a piece of shit too and I don't hate my mom.. I guess I didn't look at it like that.. but I did grow up thinking I wasn't good enough for him and I don't want my son thinking that..

@amberlee_94, Wow! that girl is stupid she is giving her daughters horrible examples of how women should be treated! smh! & of course you go through that at some point wondering why wasn't your dad around but i guarantee when your son figures out who he is.. hell understand. i thought that same way then when i turned 18 & met my sperm donor & i got it... and who knows where i would've been if he was in my life. There's a reason he isn't in your sons life and from the sounds of it, its for the best. just think about the great example your giving your son? your a strong women to do this alone!

Thank you so much @ftmommie2015 ! and you are exactly right on so many levels! I appreciate it!

@amberlee_94, your very welcome!