Anyone have a man that have a child(ren) outside of you? && things they do with their children you…

YES MY HUBBY HAS A SON AND HE DOESN'T BELIEVE IN DISCIPLINE HIS SON WELL AS HE SAY HIS KIDS BUT HIS BUBBLE WILL BE GETTING BURST CAUSE I BELIEVE IN DISCIPLINE.

Not sure if I'm understanding what you've said but my husband has two little boys from his first marriage and we have a little girl and expecting another baby in march. together we all make decisions if they would impact the lives of all of us. for the most part I step back and leave the parenting to their mom and dad. luckily we all get along and are able to come to agreements easily. now, my husband treats each child differently. they're 7, 5 and 2 so they aren't all on the same level or understand things the same. when his boys were younger he would do more with them than he does our daughter but I believe that's because she's daddy's first little girl and he worries about her alot. he worries about the boys also but he says he has to teach them to be strong for their families when they're older. sorry if this is all a mess I'm having a heck of a time with pregnancy brain lol!

@buckbaby15 no discipline... he gonna end right up in jail!! oo nooo!! @ashley1215 yea like my husband has a daughter && doesn't do much with her because he feels she is a girl && their isn't much to do. but when our son comes he saying how he gonna do all these things with him && I don't say anything but I don't think it's quite fair. && then he barely does active things with her like take her to the movies or the park or this && that. I don't think he is a bad father I just don't think he knows exactly.. like sometimes I suggest things to him -& he will do it. but I know things will change when our son comes because if I tell him me && the baby going to Disney on ice or the circus he is going to wanna come. he not gonna wanna stay home ya know..

@sexii_diiva, YEP LIKE HIS DADDY BUT I WONT BE HAVING THAT WITH BJ

@buckbaby15 yes.. its hard enough for black men now. specially with all that stuff going on. so my baby will not be in the streets. I need to know his every movement.. he gonna be in all type of sports or programs... keep him busy so he can stay out of trouble ya know!

mt husband doesnt have other kids of his own, but he raised his nephews because his mom and sister are awful parents and basically abandoned them. they get away with everything with him, and when i babysit i cant stand that they wont listen to me. they just run wild. aint happening with my boy and my husband knows it.

@sexii_diiva, OH I AM MY SON WILL BE RAISED HOW I WAS RAISED NO IF ANDS OR BUTS ABOUT IT

@kaylhunt2 I wouldn't be able to take them not listening to me!! they don't pay bills. we would have to straighten that out! @buckbaby15 exactly!

@sexii_diiva yeah. its awful. theyre learning that i mean business. they have had their asses hauled out of a play place and been taken home for not.listening.to me.

absolutely! ! !