I fell so bad this morning I know this is not pregnancy related but I need to vent I guess. I was…
I fell so bad this morning I know this is not pregnancy related but I need to vent I guess. I was raised in a church where ppl did really bad things my mom was a (Christian who did drugs) my dad was a atheist. so I grew up thinking if he was real bad would not happen I don't deal with rack hypocrites about anything I stay away from them I have never told my kids I don't believe cause I want them to make a choice for themselves. well this morning my 11yr old asked why I won't go to church with them and there grandma my MIL I told her I don't believe she asked why and I said you should not come home and every other word be f&%@ this or f&%$ that or talking shit on ppl and now the kids have learned to do so she went to school crying I don't know how to fix it. sorry so long and thanks to those who read it
🌺Sabrina🌺·
Aww I'm sorry honey, that's how I grew up too, I am a baptized Jehovah's Witness now, but my kids and husband are not I've been baptized for 5 yrs, I do a lot of research and I really study and read my bible, it is true and people are hypocrites but we can't judge, all we can do is lead by example and we can win people over without a word, it's gets frustrating for my children too cause my husband curses, my mom is supposed to be a Muslim and she cusses, celebrates and does everything else under the sun, I would just talk to your daughter and let her know that religion is a touchy situation but yet it's a choice and decision you make as you get older and understand it, and just let her know that just because you don't go to church you don't believe and that grandma shouldn't say that, but sometimes things happen and it's not right for people to go to church or any other religious venue and act one way and then come home and act totally different, and then show her in the bible one day, cause it says it in there, I hope it works out and she feels better when she comes home from school, my daughters are 12 & 8 and the decision is theirs to make cause we are responsible for our own salvation, when we are old enough to understand, but you guys will be fine suga😙
amber·
@mrssabby that is how I fell also it is there choice I appreciate what you said
🌺Sabrina🌺·
@dawn, yeah I hope it all works out for you all, my mom in law used to do the same to my kids and my husband had to step in and tell her they can make that decision when the time is appropriate when they truly and fully understand, just reassure her of that ☺️
amber·
I will thank you @mrssabby
🌺Sabrina🌺·
@dawn, your welcome now relax, so we can keep these lil babies baking 😘😉
amber·
@mrssabby I am thank you you put it in to perspective for me
🌺Sabrina🌺·
@dawn, aww don't mention it, trust me, I got these two kids over here and I'm in bed jail, I only deal with what I can cause I've had a preemie before and I don't want another one, I just can't deal but I'm rooting for ya honey😉
amber·
@mrssabby thank you I should be in bed jail but not
🌺Sabrina🌺·
Lol are you just in bed rest as much as possible? I can only get up to pee, and I can only take a shower when someone's home. Cause I fell twice before @dawn