i seriously hate when i visit my mother.. my oldest will say something so harmless. like my throat…

i seriously hate when i visit my mother.. my oldest will say something so harmless. like my throat hurts.. then i get to hear a whole lecture of how i must not be doing my job as a mother.. um.. as well as various home remedies i need to incorporate into my childs daily regimen.. yes mom lets ignore the fact that i am a nurse.. and obviously have been a mother for 5 years now without your help.. I promise I will never overstep my boundaries as a mother.. even i know when to STFU.. geez.