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Jiannalyn Manibusan
Jiannalyn Manibusan
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Does anyone else feel stuck ? Or maybe even trapped ? I don't mean this in a bad way with pregnancy…

Does anyone else feel stuck ? Or maybe even trapped ? I don't mean this in a bad way with pregnancy & my relationship, but ever since I've gotten pregnant I don't do things like how I use to ... my social life is all on here or with family. I text friends but the last time I ever hung out with one of them was for my late birthday lunch in July. Anyways my boyfriend on the other hand still likes to go out & be with his friends & leave me at the house. I don't mean to sound selfish with him, I mean he works hard and deserves to have some time to himself or even some guy time, but every time he goes out it makes me want to go out because I know he will hate it. I just hate that I don't have the same social life as I did, but its not like I can go back to that, doing stupid things while pregnant. Idk any advice? I don't want to tell him to stop hanging out & going out because of my selfish reasons but I don't want him to lol

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mommyoftwo35

Shelsie.

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same here 😔

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sinabear

sinabear

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@_february2015_, ugh girl me too 😔 i have no social life but my family too! im so antisocial its crazy...but whenever my hunny goes out i go out too. We go fishing or something & its nice 😊

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kaity0117

Kaitlin

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You need to sit down and talk to him about how you are feeling. Isolation it what it sounds like. Me and my boyfriend both are kinda hermits and don't have much of a social life we maybe go out with a friend once in a blue moon... So I don't have that problem. But if you talk to him and tell him "babe I don't want you to think I am asking you to not go out but I feel like I stay home all the time. I am little jealous that you still have friends to hang out with and I would like it if we could plan an outing together so that I don't feel so isolated!" You need to be honest with yor feelings... Otherwise your jealousy and slight frustration could turn to resentment. You could also try to connect with other preggos in your area! :) maybe he can invite you along to whatever he is doing? Or plan that something that you would enjoy! Or girl... Just plan a day for yourself!!!

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sexii_diiva

Mrs.Pin to you 😉

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girl I understand.. my husband barely goes out but when he does I give him a hard time sometimes because its not fair I'm stuck at home lol ... && then it bothers me he doesn't invite me. yea I don't wanna go out at midnight && I can't hang but at least you asking me feels like you are thinking about me..

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liinababess_

Lina Guerrero

I have no social life this is the only social app I have. I don't even have friends all I have is my boyfriend his my best friend baby daddy then I have my family that's all.

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ajourneywithus

Nicole Golphenee

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All day everyday! I literally only have my child and my man.

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Jiannalyn Manibusan

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Really glad I'm not alone in this... @kaity0117 honestly he doesn't go out all the time, maybe once a week for like 2 hours at most... so I feel bad to ask for him to stay home or invite me. And even if he did invite me I don't get along with "his people"... my boyfriend & I are from two different worlds.

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kaity0117

Kaitlin

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Well maybe ask him to take you out one night? Even for fast food and park somewhere... Or go for a short walk? Swimming together? (Swimming feels AMAZING)

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marushka22

Marushka O'Neal

im actually sitting here crying right now because my husband just told me he wants to start going out and having guy time again instead of always being with me all the time.... and im here like well what do I get to do... nothing I moved away from all my friends and family and only have him!!!!! sucky feeling in the world @_february2015_

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Jiannalyn Manibusan

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it really does suck ! @marushka22 I mean I still have family around but I only see them every once in a while ... but its like now that I'm pregnant I feel the need to always be with him.. it just feel a safer & complete you know ? if in case something was to happen ... gosh I just think about it now, even if we were to go out we would want to be back home because our back hurts or our feet are swollen or we are just tired .

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Jiannalyn Manibusan

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@kaity0117, I should huh? I would love to go swimming, & its been a while since we've went on a date .

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tgeezy

tara

My man has a lot of hobbies, so I totally get what you mean. He jams with his friends, is on a basketball team, goes to the gym a lot, and has a lot of friends. I have a lot of friends too but I haven't been doing nearly as much with them since the pregnancy. It feels so weird because I used to be way more social than him! But pregnancy is a time to enjoy yourself and bond with your baby anyways, right? I think you should suggest picking up a hobby together! Go out and watch your local sports team together, play video games, go on walks, or whatever you both like to do :)

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tgeezy

tara

Also I've picked up a lot of hobbies of my own too, I do a lot of crafting stuff and take my dog on walks, and work a lot.

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