Sorry for the long comment.. /: lol Mine cheated on me over two years ago, when we had first met. but it was after he had already told me he was going to marry me when I turned 18 and that he was in love with me. he had just gotten back from deployment, and two weeks went by then I found out from a friend not even from him that he kissed his ex and was visiting her the whole time behind my back. he lied about it, and I feel like there is more to the story.. he strung me along for the next 2 months trying to decide if he wanted her or me... then she turned him down after he left me finally. I had met someone else, and was with him for almost a year, then we broke up because he moved away and cheated.. my husband and I got back together when I turned 18, and he did marry me. it was over two years ago, he has changed... he hasn't given me a reason to suspect cheating since... I stalk his everything... I go through his phone... I reread all the messages from him and her back when he cheated... I still cry to this day about it... Why am I not over it... I usually get over these things fast... but, I can't seem to with this... with him.... I'm so miserable sometimes... and my history of depression makes it so much worse... @delilahsmommy2015
I did,it was a year ago but I still can't let it go complete , I really stayed because I just found out I was pregnant but he did it months before then but the question you have to ask yourself is that is it worth fighting for in the long run
I don't even know anymore, honestly.... is it possible that I'm not over it because subconsciously I know that more happened then I was told, and I'm so set on figuring out what, that I can't forget about it? @lee0924
You won't get over it so easy ,this I know ,and that's because you really love him,and I still cry about him cheating ,it hurts ,I understand ,I can't tell you whether to stay or not that's what's in your heart but think about what's best for you ,you can love somebody and not be with them then again I couldn't image leaving him but if it was more then once he probably gonna do it again
4 Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; 5 does not behave rudely, DOES NOT SEEK ITS OWN, is not provoked, thinks no evil;6 does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; 7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
ALL OF THESE EQUAL LOVE NOT JUST SOME!!! CAN'T HAVE ONE WITHOUT THE OTHER AND STILL CALL IT LOVE 😘😘 @lee0924 @rachelmariecroxton
Oh... idunno, I do love him. everyone thinks I should not have given him a second chance, and they think I sure as hell shouldn't be carrying his child... but, I feel like he has changed, I just.. still hurt from the past.. you know? I tend to be over emotional, and obsessive over history.. /:
I don't know what you mean! Because I could not spend my life with someone that has cheated on me! I couldn't do it because I would go through exactly what you're going through and I choose rather to enjoy my life even if that means alone or with someone else. However I do hear that you keep making excuses for the way that you feel and blaming yourself... That is part of the biggest problem. I think it's high time you sit in either cry it out and let it go or cry it out and move on! If you're going to stay with him you gotta let it go for your sanity and for you all to actually move on and get past it! If you're not going to be able to let it go then sweetheart is time to move on because you don't want to have your baby in that miserable life and I'm sure you don't want to live a lie. Also trying to find out what "really" happened between him and this other girl will never make you feel better it will only make you feel worse. What you know is already destroying you trying to figure out more detail is going to crush your spirit! Trust me, I know what I'm talking about! I've traveled these roads long before!
Put our past behind me, and move to the future, with a happy life for my baby. Got it. (: everyone explains stuff like this to me.. but it just goes over my head because they don't explain in a way I understand good enough. You're really helped. <3 Thank you. <3 @babyboolala
lee0924·
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Yup ...once
Rachel Croxton·
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Did you stay?
Rachel Croxton·
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@lee0924,
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Sorry for the long comment.. /: lol Mine cheated on me over two years ago, when we had first met. but it was after he had already told me he was going to marry me when I turned 18 and that he was in love with me. he had just gotten back from deployment, and two weeks went by then I found out from a friend not even from him that he kissed his ex and was visiting her the whole time behind my back. he lied about it, and I feel like there is more to the story.. he strung me along for the next 2 months trying to decide if he wanted her or me... then she turned him down after he left me finally. I had met someone else, and was with him for almost a year, then we broke up because he moved away and cheated.. my husband and I got back together when I turned 18, and he did marry me. it was over two years ago, he has changed... he hasn't given me a reason to suspect cheating since... I stalk his everything... I go through his phone... I reread all the messages from him and her back when he cheated... I still cry to this day about it... Why am I not over it... I usually get over these things fast... but, I can't seem to with this... with him.... I'm so miserable sometimes... and my history of depression makes it so much worse... @delilahsmommy2015
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I did,it was a year ago but I still can't let it go complete , I really stayed because I just found out I was pregnant but he did it months before then but the question you have to ask yourself is that is it worth fighting for in the long run
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I don't even know anymore, honestly.... is it possible that I'm not over it because subconsciously I know that more happened then I was told, and I'm so set on figuring out what, that I can't forget about it? @lee0924
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You won't get over it so easy ,this I know ,and that's because you really love him,and I still cry about him cheating ,it hurts ,I understand ,I can't tell you whether to stay or not that's what's in your heart but think about what's best for you ,you can love somebody and not be with them then again I couldn't image leaving him but if it was more then once he probably gonna do it again
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@Rachelmariecroxton,
Lala·
1 Corinthians 13:4-7
4 Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; 5 does not behave rudely, DOES NOT SEEK ITS OWN, is not provoked, thinks no evil;6 does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; 7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
ALL OF THESE EQUAL LOVE NOT JUST SOME!!! CAN'T HAVE ONE WITHOUT THE OTHER AND STILL CALL IT LOVE 😘😘 @lee0924 @rachelmariecroxton
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So, basically it's okay to feel this way? @babyboolala
Lala·
That's not at all what I'm saying sweetheart! I'm saying love shouldn't feel the way u say u feel boo!
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Oh... idunno, I do love him. everyone thinks I should not have given him a second chance, and they think I sure as hell shouldn't be carrying his child... but, I feel like he has changed, I just.. still hurt from the past.. you know? I tend to be over emotional, and obsessive over history.. /:
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@babyboolala,
Lala·
I don't know what you mean! Because I could not spend my life with someone that has cheated on me! I couldn't do it because I would go through exactly what you're going through and I choose rather to enjoy my life even if that means alone or with someone else. However I do hear that you keep making excuses for the way that you feel and blaming yourself... That is part of the biggest problem. I think it's high time you sit in either cry it out and let it go or cry it out and move on! If you're going to stay with him you gotta let it go for your sanity and for you all to actually move on and get past it! If you're not going to be able to let it go then sweetheart is time to move on because you don't want to have your baby in that miserable life and I'm sure you don't want to live a lie. Also trying to find out what "really" happened between him and this other girl will never make you feel better it will only make you feel worse. What you know is already destroying you trying to figure out more detail is going to crush your spirit! Trust me, I know what I'm talking about! I've traveled these roads long before!
Rachel Croxton·
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Put our past behind me, and move to the future, with a happy life for my baby. Got it. (: everyone explains stuff like this to me.. but it just goes over my head because they don't explain in a way I understand good enough. You're really helped. <3 Thank you. <3 @babyboolala
Lala·
Oh thank God that's what I was praying to do! I only wanted to help! Now go be beautiful and happy! 😘😘😊