depreesed & stressed: I generally don't like to talk bad about my man bc he's amazing, but he's been so stressed out…

@18andpregnant, i know where you are coming from and you know what things may seem hotrible right now but its darkest before dawn things happen but this is just a bump in the road you guys will be ok and look back and say wow we made it thru that crap just dont take your mans attitude to heart they are providers so when they feel that they cant provide that is how they act just keep your head up and keep feeling that beautiful baby move because when that precious gift makes it way you guys will feel the love and the darkness you have now will subside give it time ♡♡♡

thank you so much. seriously, that really helped. much needed💕 @joanna290

hey your from Fresno? only a couple hours from me (: I go up there and visit friends every once in a while. I live like 40 mins from sac haha @joanna290

@18andpregnant, yes!!! whats sac like fresno sucks lol

sac there's more hills, and different gangs, people are the same. hahah @joanna290 and its not as hot!

I was right there too, it took me five months for me and my man to start working things out yet we still have our problems he's gotten a lot better

Just jeep reminding yourself and both of you you needa talk things out instead of fight , and quit doing so much for him cause I did that and my man admitted he felt like cause I was pregnant doing that stuff that I wouldn't and couldn't leave him

that's good, things usually clear up fast but it's been like 3 days and its hard bc its so difderent😕 @meganc

@18andpregnant, i only visited for one say lol to get my nursing license it did seem much cooler :)

@joanna290, its alright hahah me and my man are acctually talking about moving to Fresno haha

@18andpregnant, its ratchet here lmao if i could i would be in san diego lol

where we go is really nice, I love it hahahah @joanna290

@18andpregnant, oh i should be in that area lol

I suggest sitting him and talking to him. Just say "look things have been tough and we are both stressed out. But I feel like your taking a lot of your stress out on me and it's hurting my feelings." In a relationship you should lean on each other for support not beat the crap out of each other when shit gets rough... (Not beat literally that's a whole other problem)

@joanna290, I don't remember where we go but its like 10 min from all the malls and everything like that. @kaity0117 that's a good idea he's pretty hard headed. but that's a good way to word things. thank you

One the best things you can do is avoid saying stuff using YOU. Try talking to him and say when you do this it makes me like this. It's not okay for him to take it out on you. I hope you both learn how to do that because when me and my boyfriend did it changed everything. For the good :)

its ok all men do it even good men. ppl think good men dnt have asshole ways. they have feelings too. my man is a damn good man treats me right never disrespects me. when we dnt have money for something important asshole kicks in. its only cuz hes providing and he says it hurts him that sometimes we struggle he feels he should be superman all the time. its a man thing. a good man loves to work and if he cant he feels less of a man. thats how they are.