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cricket
cricket
cricket
I just seen a picture that a young lady posted on here about three days ago in her bra and underwear. I want to say "Im sorry but" and then continue writing but honestly im not sorry. Ladies i get that pregnancy is a BEAUTIFUL thing and yes allll of our bodies are beautiful and we should love them because God made us to be so beautiful. But come on now that is something for us and our husbands to see NOT the rest of the world. We should respect our bodies and not share them with everyone. I get it so many people say "its same thing as a bathing suit" but honestly i dont think you should be sharing pictures like that either. If you want your body to be appreciated then your man can do that if you want to show off your body show it off to your man. Everyone does not need to know what your body looks like. Im not saying be ashamed of your body but you dont need to share it with everyone. Its so sad to me that all these women are so comfortable with sharing their bodies with the whole world modesty is not a bad thing.
16.11.2014
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cricket
cricket
Hahahahaha OMG I couldn't even imagine my husband would FREAKKKK out!!! Just thinking about it makes me laugh haha...not that its funny at all but just like knowing how he'd be like WTF ya know haha. But yeah shes crazy I definitely do not understand her train of thought (rihanna)! @sexii_diiva
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cricket
cricket
I definitely agree that the times now are sooo different from how they used to be! That's why im not trying to say anything bad about any women. Its just a different day and age and I was just hoping some women would think about how scary this world is and how precious our bodies are. I dont look down on anyone in anyway I just know I think differently and wanted share my thoughts to make people think a bit. @kaity0117
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sexii_diiva
sexii_diiva
that's like rihanna. I love her music but some stuff she wears is too scandalous like that gold see thru dress.. you saw. all her nipples her vagina && but crack! I'm all for sexy but damn give the viewers something to imagine
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sexii_diiva
sexii_diiva
@cricket exactly people are crazy.. so you have to be careful. && I agree save it for your man. my husband would be upset if I'm in my panties && bra online
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sexii_diiva
sexii_diiva
@kaity0117 you're taking what I said way out of content. . they have small girls that's not "cute pregnant" as well. are you confident with yourself because like I said it was not to offend you so don't take it out on me . I didn't think we were arguing maybe a debate. I'm not upset in any way shape or form. you have your opinion && I have mine && that is okay
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cricket
cricket
Yes its such a scary thought how many people are stalked on social media. And to think women are willing to give them something to look at makes me so sad and scared for them. Its a nasty and dangerous world out there and i just wanted to make this post for the chance that one woman would rethink their photos and be like yeah I am showing a lot. Because i hear stories where men like your stuff on the internet and hack some stuff and find out where you work or live or something and follow you. I would not want to chance that. And whit my baby on the way I know if im having a girl I would NEVER want her to share her body like that so how would I feel doing that being her mother I have an example to set. @sexii_diiva
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kaity0117
kaity0117
Yeah sex sells but that doesn't make it okay. I agree with @cricket that we shouldn't be showing ourselves off so much. Self respect is becoming a thing of the past and it's so sad. So but its respect for other people. And thank you for saying I'm "cute pregnant" just makes me feel bad for the "fat ugly" pregnant women out there. I'm simply saying that think how your comments make that person feel before you make the comment. And I am sorry @cricket for possibly starting an argument on your post! I get where you are coming from and for me I guess I never thought of my picture circulating. I think some people grew up with different standards and some people simply like to show it off!
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sexii_diiva
sexii_diiva
@cricket yes I understand where you coming from.. if you look at how things were 20 yrs ago compared to now... people now will show they bodies on the internet. even in lingerie I'm scared someone gonna kidnap && rape me so I don't do It lol but society has changed.. sex sells.. so its gonna keep happening && probably gonna get worse && worse
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sexii_diiva
sexii_diiva
@kaity0117, those long messages were for you
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cricket
cricket
Okay this post was truly misinterpreted. Im not saying anything bad about women of any kind im not saying anyone should be ashamed no matter how good or bad you think you look . Anyones size or age or nothing had anything to do with what im saying. I was simply saying your body is a temple that God gave us so treat it like it is and keep it private between you and your husband. I feel SO exposed for the women no matter what size age or kind of person they are when they reveal themselves to the whole world! The internet is a huge place and I would not want my picture out there circulating for ANYONE to see and share. That thought is so gross to me that many random people would be staring at a photograph of my body. @sexii_diiva @kaity0117 @makeartnotwarr69
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sexii_diiva
sexii_diiva
I just looked at your pics && you're cute pregnant you're not sloppy pregnant. I'm talking about the girls that are so big that when they are pregnant no one knows because they were already over weight &- there whole pregnancy it looks more like a flab && no round belly. your stomach looks perfectly round && if you lift your shirt I wouldn't say eww or anything like that
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sexii_diiva
sexii_diiva
no I wasn't trying to offend you. I'm just saying know people need to know your body type. like I said if someone was on a beach && overweight they are not gonna be in a bikini more then likely. && as far as stomach if its round okay but if it just look like an oversized stomach I don't wanna see it. I don't wanna see a small girl in panties && draws either but the world we live in sex sells... they have some thick girls with nice bodies. just know your body type. && I'm not gonna block someone for showing your big stomach or small stomach or half naked pics. doesn't mean you're a bad person at all. I only block people that are repetitive && seem like they want attention && when girls try to help them they still do the same thing &- cry on here everyday. we have our bad days but when 90% of the post are about the same thing && negative then I block. but like I said it wasn't meant to be offensive because I wouldn't have said that if I knew you were gonna be offended
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kaity0117
kaity0117
I have to say that as a girl who is a little over weight I kind find your comment a little offensive @sexii_diiva I know you didn't mean it that way but to say it's disturbing is a little harsh? Consider the average sized woman is a size 14-16... My stomach happens to look round and I realize that I am probably not on the same level of overweight that you are referring to... If someone posted a photo that was revealing on here it's probably because they felt comfortable enough to do so and I don't see a problem with that. I don't agree that a girl under 18 should posting such photos and I was a little shocked to see a girl in lingerie who is only 16-17 ( this was a long time ago) and no one seemed to have to problem with it because she is small. However to think that it would be more upsetting if she was bigger... That's what's disturbing. And if anyone is truly offended why not simply block them? Or ignore the post? I am 19 and I posted a picture in my bikini.... Is that disturbing? Cause bra and panties cover the same amount of clothing... Just thought I would try to show my point of view! This has been a very safe place for me and only in the last little while have things gotten a little dramatic... It's sad
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sexii_diiva
sexii_diiva
I agree. the stomach pics are okay but everything else. I'm like I know we all women but damn. But no offense to the big girls I kinda feel like no one wants to see that. A lot of bigger girls stomach doesn't look round it looks flabbish so its a little disturbing.. I'm sure they wouldn't go to the beach in a 2 piece so don't show it here either.. Don't have low self esteem but just know what is appropriate && what's not. just like everyone has a different body type && different clothes look good on different people according to your body type!!
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cricket
cricket
Im glad im not the only one. My intentions were not to offend anyone but I just felt so exposed for that young lady and i couldn't resist saying something.@makeartnotwarr69,
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