How do you all feel about mixed gender baby showers..? I'm so confused! I have several VERY close…

How do you all feel about mixed gender baby showers..? I'm so confused! I have several VERY close gay male friends who I would feel very strange not including.. But I also have close male friends in general and don't know where to draw the line! I know I can't invite a billion people and feel like my hetero dudes would be bored. Ugh!