So my fiance waits until now to tell me he isn't going to be in the delivery room...awesome. Thanks for the heads up I guess? It's only about 8 weeks before your son will be here.
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He could easily be in the room and not have to have a full on view of everything going on.. He could stand by your shoulder facing your face so his back is to the delivery and he can still be supportive. I don't think my boyfriend not being in the room at delivery would be an option.. And he knows not to cross me not while I'm pregnant lol. I hope you guys can work something out
One thing I want us women to remember is that we have actually have the control in any situation we allow to take place in our lives! If you allow this to be acceptable then he will go forward thinking of only himself! I think you need to set some ground rules honey and make sure he understands you mean business. If this man wants to continue a life with you he should not begin with abandonment and leaving you to fin for yourself! If you start this way you will continue this way and more likely than not you will end this way! Be well boo praying for the best outcome for you and baby because that's what it's all about! 😘😘😘 @lilman1115
he personally feels that he cant handle being in the room for the delivery. He doesn't want to watch, or cut the cord. I'm bummed because yay! One more time I'm left on my own...and it's the one thing I really wanted him there for.
I told him that...but I think it's more of the whole having to see me in pain part mostly. the second thought is seeing all the blood. he also mentioned if I ever wanted him to touch me again it's best he isn't in there. I told him even im aware of what happens, but im not gonna want the mirror to watch it myself either. I'm Okay with wanting to touch the baby's head when it starts to come out, but not too keen on the idea of seeing everything.