Aw thanks @mmmirage it's good now I'm good. I like helping others so they don't feel like I did. It's healing. Keep in touch okay.

I'm sorry you had such a rough time :/ I'll pray for u :)

You're so understanding! No one else talks like that, thank u so much! I know I can msg u whenever now! Let's pray that all goes well during my labor so I'm not traumatized to the point I won't plan for another baby

@mmmirage, I didn't have ideal births my first was horrible and my second..you can read about on here. Either way if you need someone to talk to after I'm here I'm in a birth trauma group so many people brush off your feelings by saying you're baby is healthy and make you feel bad about something you already feel bad enough about I used to get so mad I'm like "yes thank goodness he's healthy that's not what I'm having issues with." Anyway you could be lucky and have an amazing experience and I hope you do but if it's not and you're feeling bad about it talk to someone. I didn't until 6 depressing months later. I'm here or I can direct you to a group you can join after. Good luck

I'll just have lots of healthy snacks available lol I need to lose weight so bad. I'm way too overweight now. I just hope I can still deliver naturally with the weight gain

Oops @mmmirage

Yeah it's hard to not eat badly cause the first 3 months of it make you ravenously hungry then it evens out. I couldn't exclusively breastfeed with my first, so with my second it's been nice it's helped keep my hormones a little more balanced so I didn't have the blues like I did.

@earthrose13 lol oh wow I didn't know that. That's a good thing though! I remember my sisterinlaw telling me she got super hungry all the time :-/ lol

When you breastfeed all you want is water it makes you thirsty and it makes me crave protein like crazy. @mmmirage

Oh ok thanks! I plan on breast feeding so I hope I will be able to do it and I'll drink lots of water I guess

Water weight and breastfeeding were a huge part in it. @mmmirage

How did u lose the weight? I gained 9 pounds since last month and I'm already overweight so I'm concerned :/ im 30w4d pregnsnt right now