I've tried so many times. He always makes it about him and then goes on to say it's always his fault so I've learned to just shut up because no matter what I say or do, it's never about me and my feelings. I always have to be the one to apologize and admit I was wrong even though I know damn well it was his fault. I'm just so tired of him only thinking about himself.

Try talking to him and telling him how you feel sometimes men can be so oblivious to the little things and it can get you really upset but try talking calmly and reasonably youll be surprised how much that can make a difference in his attitude and actions.

im sorry! i feel this way sometimes. i hope things work out soon.