Think I made a mistake moving in with my mom & family during my pregnancy so they could see and be…
Think I made a mistake moving in with my mom & family during my pregnancy so they could see and be around my baby boy.. I moved away from my boyfriend.. we were planning on getting a place together.. it wouldn't be a big deal except I moved from Michigan to Colorado.. I haven't seen my boyfriend since I left, back in May.. I love him and miss him. Here, I'm a taxi driver to my siblings, a grocery getter, & a damn maid. I don't get any respect and nobody even cares at the fact that I have a cold and am trying to rest because I am 36 weeks pregnant and my son is trying to come out very very soon. His head is pushing so hard in my pelvis that my doctor told me to rest because he could be here any day. Why can't they see that?? instead they want to give me shit for trying to rest and feel better.. If they think I'm going to be pickin up kids from here and there when my son is born, they have a rude awakening coming. He will need all of my time and attention I'm not doing shit for them. I can't afford to move back to Michigan to be with my boyfriend until I go back to work in hopefully January and save up enough money + tax return and move back then... it's just so far away idk how to deal with them now...
Mrs.Pin to you 😉·
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aww that's so sad.. yea sometimes your man supports you more then family. sorry to hear that. they should be catering to you. not the other way around!
Amber Lee 😚·
@sexii_diiva, he really does.. thing is I didn't see it until I moved here.. it will be better when my son is born so I can just stay in my room with him and ignore them. I think they just wanted me to come to love on my son.. not me. They don't care about me its obvious. I guess I just have a hard time realizing that I am an adult now and about to have my own family.. I need to be with my man.. not here.
Mrs.Pin to you 😉·
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yes.. you are real genuine for even driving them all around... I'm 23 weeks and get tired fast so I can imagine how you feel because you Are way further along
Amber Lee 😚·
@sexii_diiva, I don't have a choice. I have a fever and stuffy nose and was sleeping when my sister called me and said "come get me" not "can you come get me" not "please".. no it was an order. And that spoiled little brat is only 17 and she thinks she can boss me around. But yeap.. she gets away with it. I'm in the wrong when I bring it to my parents attention. Such b.s. now because I got up and had to get into the truck which is VERY hard for me to get in an out of, my back is killing me. So not only am I sick I have back pain now. my boyfriend is upset that I'm miserable here. A few days ago I thought my water broke and my mom said that I was faking and to go lay down and come get her if I am in so much pain I can't walk. my boyfriend is pissed that I'm getting treated like shit. he's upset because he's been trying to talk me into coming back for months now. But I can't afford to even if I wanted to.
Mrs.Pin to you 😉·
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aww... so sas
Mrs.Pin to you 😉·
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sad
Jessica Stephens·
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honestly thats one of the reasons why i dnt live with family and that im so blessed that its just me and my man no one to bother us . but yes i been there and it sucks it really does
Amber Lee 😚·
@missj_stephens, I mean I guess I just really w wanted my son to have his grandparents and I wanted to have my mom's help throughout this.. she pulled my arm to get me out here too.. saying how upset she will be by not being able to see her grandchild.. I felt like I was being pulled in two different directions and I should have followed my heart and stayed with my man. :(
Amber Lee 😚·
He has kids in Michigan so it isn't like he can move out here with me.. I should of stayed there.
Kayla Ward·
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I get what ur saying about wanting ur son to have his grandparents but during your pregnancy you could have stayed with your man and when you had the baby then you could have done visits with you parents. seems like you would have been better off with him than them during the pregnancy
Amber Lee 😚·
It's so hard when your parents are living 1500 miles away and work.. there's no time for visits.. and being my first pregnancy I was scared to do it without my mom.. I haven't lived with them since I was 16 so I missed them... sometimes I have a hard time thinking about what I want instead of what everybody else wants..
Jessica Stephens·
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spmetime u gotta followcur heart. when i first got with my man he told me he was going to texas and that i coupd come if i wanted. i followed my heart and went. i realized there was nothing going for me in arizona. i left all my family
Jessica Stephens·
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*sometimes *follow *your *could. sorry for typos