I'm up like usual always thinking I try to avoid all the bad feelings for my baby girl nd I but…
I'm up like usual always thinking I try to avoid all the bad feelings for my baby girl nd I but today just can't. I haven't spoke to my mom in a month hasn't been the first time once it had been 6 but I wasn't pregnant then, I'm angry for a lot of reasons but not one to hold grudges if she wanted to talk to me she would she can't even call to ask if I'm ok. my bf says call her especially cuz both my. showers are coming up it hurts like hell not having her around especially after she told me to worry bout me and my baby and not worry bout her and her kids.. idk if I should just leave it or try like I always do I'm sick of always being the mom with her I can't see myself beinglike her w my baby.
Jessica Stephens·
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yeah it is a struggle trying to get along with moms . i totally understand
yesenia5·
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Yea always has been very frustrating because ppl will ask is your mom coming when ur having her all I wanna do is cry when I'm asked
missing5user·
geeshh I'm in the situation almost 3 weeks w/o talking to her she acts like a dam little girl & they say it's ur mom blah blah but honestly my mom doesn't give me any respect or has never once asked how im doing in my pregnancy. ...but maybe you should just tell her about the baby shower so she can know ur being the bigger person .. don't cry!!! I know exactly how u feel my mom & I never had a good relationship .. All u need is ur baby idk why they're pushing us away specially being pregnant keep ur head up momma ! <3
yesenia5·
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@flowersssxo, too late lol my lil brother called that's why I'm a mess lol thank you tho that's usually how I feel but I wanna act childish like her I'm sick of being bigger person just hate knowing how much I love my lil one already nd she's not even here yet always worried hoping all's alright but we're all different I guess. hope ur relationship w your mom gets better:)
missing5user·
awww !! I know what you mean my mom kicked me out so I'm in the process of moving out & my brothers don't want me to leave so I can understand how u feel with ur little brother calling <|3 .. just give ur all to ur little one & won't need noone else it does suck but like u said ur not going to be like that with ur baby & ur mom acting out like that is only making u stronger (: thank you I hope it gets better with u also !!! <3
nmitchell·
I don't have that great of a relationship with my mother either. we talk but I feel like she puts her friends over her family/daughters. all I know is that now since I'm having a girl I'm gonna make sure to be there for her and have that relationship I never had but always wanted with my own mother.
yesenia5·
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@nmitchel Yea for me it was guys in my mom's case but now just her pride she hates that I moved 10 hrs away and has told me she's jealous cuz my grandma lives here obviously has her own mom issues but crazy how we wanna be better than that for our girls but thanks ladies I feel better already: ) I better sleep my bf keeps waking up asking if I'm ok lol I just say YES I told u it's my hormones let me cry lol. have a goodnight ladies