My Baby Daddy Just Tango-d Me.. I Couldn't Stop Smiling.. I Know My Son & I Deserve Better.. WHY Do…

@amberlee_94, exactly how I feel.

I was like that with my daughter dad but once your baby here you won't even have time to be sad you b amazed by your baby nd happy ... only god knows why things happen the way they do juss take this as a blessing

It Just Breaks My Heart.. He Acts Like Nothing Happened & I'm His Girl.. ONE Of His Girls.. NEVER EVER Go To Bed With A Rapper.. Never. :'(

Except For Some Reason.. He Just Wins Me Over Every Damn Time He Talks.. His Eyes.. His Voice.. The Fact That I Am Carrying His Son.. He Makes Me Feel Like He Does Care About Me & Our Son.. But Then He Disappears For Weeks At A Time & I Don't Hear From Him.. & Then He's Back Again.. I Can't Wait For My Son To Be Here..

right now your main focus should b you & your son yes its hard very hard I've delt wit that wit my daughter dad now I have a bf nd I'm expecting my 2nd child I'm blessed to have him cuz he does for my daughter to ... I was heart broke wit my daughter dad he would come in nd out my life while I was pregnant even after I had her nd I gave up we tried to make things work but I didn't love him no more in fact don't think I did think I only held on cuz my daughter nd cuz I grew up without a dad nd didn't want my daughter to go thru it but I'm happy where I'm at in life juss pray for him nd your self ask god to guide you show u a sign wat to do

It will be okay mama!! Hopefully when the baby comes he will stick around, but if not you need to kick him out our you and your little ones life. If he can't make your baby his priority then he doesn't deserve to see him ever. I hope it all works our for you ): it's never fair when daddies don't think what they are doing is a bad thing.

what what happened between you to and how long were you guts together for

He's A Preformer/Rapper/R&B Singer/Writer/Producer.. He Travels The U.S. Doing Shows.. But I Have Known Him Since I Was 12. We Were Never "Together" We Just Talked For A Little While & One Night We Ended Up Hooking Up.. Too Many Drinks... & Boom.. I Got Pregnant.. When I Told Him, He Was Excited And Wanted A Boy. (Which I Am Having) He Already Has 5 Kids.. 2 Other Baby Mommas.. 3 Boys With 1 & 2 Girls With Another.. He Claims He Wants To Be A Part Of Our Lives & That I'm His Girl & Nobody Can Ever Be With Me.. & That He Will Take Care Of Us (Financially).. But I Want A Family Setting... You Know, Both Of Us Raising Our Son Under The Same Roof... But With His Lifestyle.. There Would Be People Coming In & Out At All Hours Of The Day.. Drunk, High, Who Knows What Else.. He's A Damn Good Daddy.. But Not Too Good In A Relationship.. I'm From Lansing, MI & Everybody Knows Him.. He's BIG Famous There.. All The Females Want Him.. Wearing Skanky Crap To His Shows.. Trying To Hook Up Back Stage... There's No Way I Could Trust Him.. @silvae1993

He Said He Has Love For Me & Wants To Have More Babies With Me In The Future When I'm Ready So Our Son Will Have Blood Siblings.. I Mean.. Part Of Me Wants To Because I Want My Kids To Have The Same Parents.. I Have 10 Siblings & None Of Them Are FULL Blood Siblings.. But I Want My Kids To Have Their Parents There For Them Full-Time.. I Know He Will Be There For My Son & If We Brought More Babies Into The World He Would Be There Too.. But I Want Marriage & A Home..... With Him It Will Never Happen... But For Some Reason, My Heart Wants Him.. Can't Let Him Go.. I Can't Get Him Out Of My Head.. It's So Hard..

My #1 Focus Is My Son.. And What Is Best For Him. With That Being Said.. When My Son Is Born & His Daddy Wants To See Him.. He's Gonna Be Seeing Me Too & Those Feelings Will Still Be There.. I Just Want What Is Best For My Son. I Love His Dad.. I Didn't Have My Dad Growing Up.. He Was a Dead Beat.. But My Baby Daddy Isn't A Dead Beat... So I Don't Want To Take His Daddy Out Of His Life For Selffish Reasons Of My Own, Like Mommy & Daddy Won't Be Together.. I Just Want To Do What Is Best For My Son.