i am an at home wife/soon to be mom, and my husband works 60+ hours a week. we rent from his family, but they all work…
i am an at home wife/soon to be mom, and my husband works 60+ hours a week. we rent from his family, but they all work full time as well. so I spend all day and throughout most of each night all alone with my hormone mess filled self. and my husband doesnt drive so i pick him up and drop him off at work. and when he comes home there is nothing more that i want to.do than spend time with him because i spend so much time alone, and because hes gone so much. but it seems that 5 out of 7 days a week he will take off with his brother and their buddies doing god knows what, amd leaving me alone AGAIN to wait for them to come back home and let them inside. am i wrong to be upset by this? we havent been married long, and we are quite young to be married.... but he wasnt like this before the wedding.... i try talking to him but he just says "well what do you want me to do?" and when i ask for time with him he tells me he doesnt get enough guy time and that i have plenty of free time during the day to spend time with friends.
Angela·
no your not wrong for getting mad he should want to spend time wit u I can only imagine when the baby comes don't worry I feel da same way only time I get is at night & were asleep ...
Cori·
that's crazy! I am somewhat in the same boat, idk how old you are but im 23 my husband is 25 he is a truck driver and is in National Guard so I rarely see him. we fight constantly because it feels like he doesn't want to spend time with me. this last fight we had I moved out and that's when I found out I was pregnant. my life went crashing down, we are still working on things but I do feel they should be around more and helping out but I dont think they see it that way.
Kayleigh·
im 19 and my husband is 18. we are very young. and funniest thing is we got married in june, but were planning the wedding when we found out about baby boy. its hard enough being married this young, but with a baby on the way its even more challenging.