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prissyprissyme
Opal Amanda
So, a few days ago I did genetic testing to see if my baby would have any disabilities. The numbers came back higher for Down syndrome and I now have to speak to a counselor about my options as far as continuing this pregnancy. The midwife said it isn't a final diagnosis, and it still makes me wonder. I'm not sure exactly how to take this, I'm thinking of getting a second opinion. Has this happen to anyone you know, or has anyone experienced this before and received a good outcome? I don't want to terminate my pregnancy and then chances are I could have had a healthy baby. All my sonograms are amazingly fine, the baby is always described as perfect as no one in mine/ or my child's father family has ever been diagnosed with Down Syndrome and it's supposed to be passed through genetic. I need advice 😕
22.09.2014
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deanna
deanna
@prissyprissyme, yea my doctor scared me so bad. I was a work and i had to leave because i couldnt think straight. But being that everything else is fine and your in good health, your baby is fine. I bet its the same thing what happen to me, just the numbers were higher than they like to where they have to warn you
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prissyprissyme
prissyprissyme
@xenaz124, see the thing with me is they found no other link aside a gene. Other than that my baby is perfectly fine, I'm beginning to think these things are procedure though because there are to many coincidences on these things, especially under this post. So keep your head up, if your ultra sounds are healthy and normal as mine have been your baby should be fine. I've become content since this post and your amazing feedbacks, maybe you should skim through my comments also I know after reading all the stories I am now confident I'll have a healthy baby :)
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xenaz124
xenaz124
I'm going through the same thing. Before 20 wks the dr was saying my baby is perfect and healthy. Last week I went for my 20 week anatomy scan and they found a Vsd in my baby which is a hole in the heart but it could close on it own. So I started doing research and found out that VSD is associated with Down syndrome. Omg idk but I freaked out to be honest. It would be so hard for me to see my child go through so much. So today I got an amneo which is genetic testing to see if the baby has Down syndrome. And it's super stressful because the results don't come in till 2 more days. And I have the decision to terminate until 24 weeks. I've searched on how parents deal with childern that have Down syndrome and it's so stressful. And I wouldn't wanna put my child through that. So just pray mama everything is going to be okay !!! Have hope. I know I do
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prissyprissyme
prissyprissyme
@regelbaby, yes, those are my same odds. My midwife couldn't really explain it so she didn't want to give me any real details, however she said enough to scare me. But she also said my odds are 1/200, I guess it's something that happens often as I read these post and I've googled a few things. I'm noticing that they seem to tell everyone that now in days, which is really really horrible and I do feel they need more accurate testing. But the first test is with bloodwork and then an ultra sound because although she couldn't tell me much I was told something can be seen around the neck area in the ultra sound that alerts the doctors, and since my last ultra sound examination was 15 weeks I have pretty high hopes! I think you should also. I'll definitely keep everyone posted as you should also :)
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prissyprissyme
prissyprissyme
@deanna, I do, especially with everything else being normal. But it probably was more so the way the doctors worded everything when she called that made me so scared
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regelbaby
regelbaby
@prissyprissyme, I am going through the EXACT same thing as you right now! Last Monday my obstetrician called and said with my age and all parts of ips test as factors, the chance of this child having downs was 1/200. Cried cried and cried! It's shocking. That's all I can say is shocking (I'm sure you felt the exact same way) I was referred to a genetic councillor who would discuss with me in further detail what the odds meant and to explain further tests - Harmony (simple blood test 99% accurate) or Amniocentesis (needle in ur belly 100% accurate) Now I have fallen in love with the little angel inside of me already and terminating this pregnancy if baby has downs is out of the question therefore I chose the Harmony test. I am still waiting on the results which I will get back hopefully within the next 5-7 days. I have had a lot of time to think, discuss and research. There are soooo many false positives!!! I don't know what your numbers are but like yours, my ultrasound images showed my baby growing and looking beautifully. (Phew! That's a good thing!!) The odds are on our side!! Think about it... Me for example, my odds are 1/200. That's a 0.04% chance my baby will have downs and a 99.6% chance he/she won't! I understand the anxiety and the confusion totally. Just know that god has chosen this particular child for you. And only special ppl are chosen to be parents to children with downs bc god knew they could handle it! .... IF that's the case! Just know I'm right here with you, and keep us updated:) xo
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lee0924
lee0924
Even if it turns out that the baby has it ,your still suppose to love your baby no matter what but it have been times that it didn't come out to be true
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deanna
deanna
Ooops @lulukiddy that comment was for @prissyprissyme above 😖
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deanna
deanna
@lulukiddy, your very welcome. And thats what help me through this whole thing i saw that my baby was normal and healthy. Deep down in my heart i knew he was ok. I just know doctors just want to be on the safe side and i have faith your baby will be fine too
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lulukiddy
lulukiddy
Down syndrome isn't something to fear, and child can be perfectly normal for the most part, my great grandmother, mom and aunt used to be teacher for them and different types of handicaps, and honestly they're so loving, more than normal kids, they have extra healthy problems, but honestly it depends on the child, and how they're raised and what they can do, they're really no different, but definitely more rewarding! But do what's best for you, and what you feel is right.
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prissyprissyme
prissyprissyme
@deanna, thank you so much, I really appreciate all that information and it's brings relief because I've had sonograms and as I said before I'll say again proudly, I was told "my baby is growing beautifully and perfectly fine and on track", but I'll take it all in vein, and ask for an emergency ultra sound at my appointment with the specialist. thank you so much! This all really helps.
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deanna
deanna
I dont remember the name of the teat but i can tell you what they did. (The name is something super fancy) first before they asked me if i wanted the test, my baby father and i had to fill out a paper with all our medical history and family history. Then she talked about my numbers. They were not too high but not where they would like to see it so dont freak out yet. Then she took a sonogram to see physical signs of any defects and there where none. And last is a simple blood test and if that come back fine your good. There is a test after that i forgot the name but you dont have to do that if your blood and sonogram is ok because that one is where they take a needle through your tummy and test the fluid around the baby but theres a chance of miscarriage with that. And im glad i can help you i dont want you making and bad choices without knowing the facts first. Your doctor just wants to make sure your baby is ok thats all @prissyprissyme
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prissyprissyme
prissyprissyme
@deanna, thank you so much I'm really anticipating this visit in Wednesday with the specialist. Which test did you do? I've seen the optional test but they don't seem safe and all end with risk of miscarriage. And my baby is very healthy according to the sonograms so I guess for now I'll just let it be. Thank you so much for sharing that with me it was really helpful
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deanna
deanna
I went through the same thing. And once i did a few more test i found out that my baby is healthy. Once you talk to the counselor she will explain those numbers and what they mean. It doesnt mean for sure your baby has it. It means it is possible in the genes. Im here for you if you need to talk cause i know how you feeling. I cried at first cause i didnt know@prissyprissyme
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prissyprissyme
prissyprissyme
@laurie, that's just one of the options they threw at me
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