Don't be sad!! I've been a single mother for 8 years now! And now that I am pregnant and my husband and I are in the process of a divorce I will be one again. It's ok and you can do it! Believe me it's hard but God will make a way
Ahhh and I just commented your other status. Girl I'm about to be a single mom but look at it this way! It's a blessing in disguise ! U rather have NO man than one who can't be one!
Don't be sad. I'm a first time mom and afraid I'll be single also, unfortunately. But if he shows signs he doesn't care this early I won't put "forced love" on my child. Let him do it on his own time, you worry about raising your beautiful blessing. It's hard but it's best to except it now than to convince yourself you need someone who doesn't want to be needed
I want a family. Its sad because i do love him and he loves me but his mother is acting like a child herself. Shes 47 and she is able to walk and do things on her own but she claim she has this mental issue and that one for years it made her look older and shes hurting herself and being selfish to the fact her son has a baby now she needs to get that together. Andd she just always crying to borrow money and more shit or hurt herself for attention
47 is young. Let's find her a man so she can leave yours alone! Lolll seriously she should know better. Her baby is having a baby. He needs to focus on you guys!
She dont get that is so needy and dirty i never met anyone so f'ed up like her before its breaking us up. When i told him i may have to leave him i felt sad because he was going to cry but he needs to do something about her
Men work with reverse psychology. Tell him u love how much he does for his mom and one day you hope your child will love u the same way BUT he needs to set his priorities str8 right now because u are about to be the mother of HIS child and if he doesn't take some action then tell him u can do it yourself.
My boyfriends mom and grandma started drama right after I gave birth and yelled at my family to the point they had to get security's to get them to leave, they've never seen our daughter and I honestly wish they won't, but Monday we will being seeing them for the first time. They made my labor so difficult when they walked in the room my labor would slowly stop. When my boyfriend went to the waiting to tell them about our daughter and me, they yelled at my family saying they were ruining family moments and just made comments the whole time I was in labor. They're evil people and hateful, and he didn't want to cut ties because it's family, but after that he knew it wasn't going to work, we're giving them one last chance, I'm so terrified though, I know they'll tell me what I'm "doing wrong" when in reality they couldn't raise a kid that wasn't mess up if they tried, and horrible parents, so I'd say give him and ultimatum and tell him how you feel, maybe he'd cut ties or tell his mom he has a family now and that his priority now, not her, and if can't do that, maybe you'd be better off as a single mom, instead of someone who can't take care of y'all.
She could just be being selfish. I don't think you should break it off speaking from someone who has a brother, and went through and in law from hell situation, most moms especially with their boys are territorial and possessive. She probably hasn't manifested the fact he's about to be his own family man, and has to come to terms with herself that he is leaving the nest. It's not you, it's a personal thing for her. Just talk to him, and he has to put his foot down and at the same time let her know even with his new baby hell still be her son. But you shouldn't let that come between you guys, always keep, or at least try to keep, whatever isn't a direct issue between you guys, separate from your direct issues if it makes any sense. Good Luck :)
catorinova·
Don't be sad!! I've been a single mother for 8 years now! And now that I am pregnant and my husband and I are in the process of a divorce I will be one again. It's ok and you can do it! Believe me it's hard but God will make a way
Mmmirage·
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Ahhh and I just commented your other status. Girl I'm about to be a single mom but look at it this way! It's a blessing in disguise ! U rather have NO man than one who can't be one!
Deanna·
I dont want to. All over his mom but i cant live like this and i dont want my kid around it
Opal Amanda·
Don't be sad. I'm a first time mom and afraid I'll be single also, unfortunately. But if he shows signs he doesn't care this early I won't put "forced love" on my child. Let him do it on his own time, you worry about raising your beautiful blessing. It's hard but it's best to except it now than to convince yourself you need someone who doesn't want to be needed
Deanna·
I want a family. Its sad because i do love him and he loves me but his mother is acting like a child herself. Shes 47 and she is able to walk and do things on her own but she claim she has this mental issue and that one for years it made her look older and shes hurting herself and being selfish to the fact her son has a baby now she needs to get that together. Andd she just always crying to borrow money and more shit or hurt herself for attention
Mmmirage·
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47 is young. Let's find her a man so she can leave yours alone! Lolll seriously she should know better. Her baby is having a baby. He needs to focus on you guys!
Deanna·
She dont get that is so needy and dirty i never met anyone so f'ed up like her before its breaking us up. When i told him i may have to leave him i felt sad because he was going to cry but he needs to do something about her
Mmmirage·
В ожидании первенца
Men work with reverse psychology. Tell him u love how much he does for his mom and one day you hope your child will love u the same way BUT he needs to set his priorities str8 right now because u are about to be the mother of HIS child and if he doesn't take some action then tell him u can do it yourself.
Stephanie Ramos·
Girl you just let your bf know what's need to be done ! And I'm sure he'll do something about it !
Lauren·
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My boyfriends mom and grandma started drama right after I gave birth and yelled at my family to the point they had to get security's to get them to leave, they've never seen our daughter and I honestly wish they won't, but Monday we will being seeing them for the first time. They made my labor so difficult when they walked in the room my labor would slowly stop. When my boyfriend went to the waiting to tell them about our daughter and me, they yelled at my family saying they were ruining family moments and just made comments the whole time I was in labor. They're evil people and hateful, and he didn't want to cut ties because it's family, but after that he knew it wasn't going to work, we're giving them one last chance, I'm so terrified though, I know they'll tell me what I'm "doing wrong" when in reality they couldn't raise a kid that wasn't mess up if they tried, and horrible parents, so I'd say give him and ultimatum and tell him how you feel, maybe he'd cut ties or tell his mom he has a family now and that his priority now, not her, and if can't do that, maybe you'd be better off as a single mom, instead of someone who can't take care of y'all.
Opal Amanda·
She could just be being selfish. I don't think you should break it off speaking from someone who has a brother, and went through and in law from hell situation, most moms especially with their boys are territorial and possessive. She probably hasn't manifested the fact he's about to be his own family man, and has to come to terms with herself that he is leaving the nest. It's not you, it's a personal thing for her. Just talk to him, and he has to put his foot down and at the same time let her know even with his new baby hell still be her son. But you shouldn't let that come between you guys, always keep, or at least try to keep, whatever isn't a direct issue between you guys, separate from your direct issues if it makes any sense. Good Luck :)