my baby is a wk and a half, my step son lives a hr away from us and is having a birthday party at the beach.. I told my husband to go to his party, I don't want to because I feel like my baby is to small to b out, well he isn't making a big deal bout it but his family is shocked that I won't go, and if my husband doesn't go they will assume it's because I'm not allowing him to. is it wrong of me not to go?