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anacort
Cortmama

Who is to blame when kids don't communicate properly?

He said my daughter fault that she didn’t communicate of saying Addy pooped mommy still in the shower he wanted older daughter to tell him the right way to say it that way and all she said was to him addy pooped so kids gotta learn to communicate better so it’s kids to blame cause I was in the shower ? He said he doesn’t know anything what he doing and knows nothing about kids cause he works so I was in the shower my kids should communicate better so kids to blame since they didn’t say it right? So who the blame here while I’m the shower and who supposed to watch and take care of the kids ? I’m suppose to get out of the shower and change the kids butt ?
So u leave a guy cause u got problems no one perfect everyone fights I just want to know where I was in the wrong is all .
18.12.2024

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ekko
ekko
Neither one of y’all should be raising small humans. Period.
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anacort
anacort
What u mean
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jays.mom.
jays.mom.
Well, first off if this is a guy that you just got into a relationship with you most definitely should not have let him change your daughter’s diaper! Second off they are your kids, not his kids. You and this man do not seem to be a good fit together. I don’t think I have read a single positive thing that you have posted about this guy.
You should take time for yourself and for your children and the right person will come along. Don’t force a relationship let it come natural and you’ll be so much happier. Do it for your girls sake! Goodluck ☺️
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anacort
anacort
Both kids of his calls me mom already and we both wanted to get married but my therapy said sometimes u need someone to talk about some stuff like this we get a long and we communicate things but I guess shouldn’t post anything on here cause everyone said leave him well just I had bad trauma in the past and we’re helping eachother with our trauma triggers we don’t mean to trigger eachother trauma just happens he not a bad guy at all we all have our up and down no guy is perfect some times I need help on here to understand what I can do better if I screwed up or maybe I misheard it so I post it and maybe I need some pointers not just to leave cause let’s say there one problem u have with a guy u just get up and leave he does help out a lot he plays with the kids he helps cook and clean he talk things through together maybe I just need help understanding where he coming from what he saying cause I have hard time understanding things.
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anacort
anacort
Well they live here with me and we change each other kids diapers but I just wanted to see what he coming from I just wanted to shower and he wasn’t busy at all to change there butt and we want to integrate eachother in our life of things he is a great guy just some time I need to explain things better on here or I just need help from u guys help me understand where he coming from or what did I do wrong while I was showering maybe I need help to explain things better to him that’s why talk on here maybe I just need some ideas I do have a processing disorder I do have the miss communication of hearing things right or wrong what’s wrong to talk to people what u feeling as well also to ur spouse to come up with a suggestion not put people down
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anacort
anacort
I’ll tell u good things he does helps me around the house since we been together he helps cook he plays with the kids with me when he home we play games with the kids he talk things out and I have hard time explaining things to him and understanding what he saying we talk about things he did take 2 hours to admit his fault but took him 2 hours see his fault what he did and I took my blame as well in it he gives massages if I ask for one just I’m just having a hard time some times I need some pointers had bad relationship in the past so I have a hard time trusting guys since I never had a guy in the past treat me well then this guy does it’s hard to explain when ur not in the relationship
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caffeinequeen.
caffeinequeen.
Why come here asking for opinions if you don’t want to hear them??

He should have common sense. 🙃
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anacort
anacort
I want a suggestion what to do and what to say to my man I do have a hard time myself communicating dry well I want to make sure I’m saying things the right way and take 2 to tango I just need help how to talk and communicate better I just need help cause I been having trouble with my last ex husband maybe it’s my fault of it all cause I have a hard time explaining things clearly
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caffeinequeen.
caffeinequeen.
@anacort, clearly. But honestly it seems like nothing but craziness.
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penelope127
penelope127
Why is there so much drama about changing a diaper?
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anacort
anacort
@penelope127, why
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penelope127
penelope127
@anacort, you guys keep having the same fight 2 days in a row all because you want to shower. It is wrong of him to place blame on your oldest for just trying to help out. If he just changed the diaper like a grown up, you wouldn’t be seeing how much he sucks right now.
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anacort
anacort
@penelope127, because it taken us two days to discuss it
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raisingblueyedbabiesx2
raisingblueyedbabiesx2
This is so hard to read.
Man u need to get rid of this dude and chill on the men.
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icebergahead
icebergahead
@raisingblueyedbabiesx2, I see a pattern here.
Op opens up with an issue and leaves a question for us to state our opinion.

Many useful opinions are given. Maybe one or two blunt replies.

Op replies with what does it even mean questions or goes on a defense about set issue/partner.
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raisingblueyedbabiesx2
raisingblueyedbabiesx2
@icebergahead its never ending
Lol
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anacort
anacort
@icebergahead, huh
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icebergahead
icebergahead
He sounds like a winner with that copout.
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anacort
anacort
What that mean?
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