Who is to blame when kids don't communicate properly?

What u mean

Both kids of his calls me mom already and we both wanted to get married but my therapy said sometimes u need someone to talk about some stuff like this we get a long and we communicate things but I guess shouldn’t post anything on here cause everyone said leave him well just I had bad trauma in the past and we’re helping eachother with our trauma triggers we don’t mean to trigger eachother trauma just happens he not a bad guy at all we all have our up and down no guy is perfect some times I need help on here to understand what I can do better if I screwed up or maybe I misheard it so I post it and maybe I need some pointers not just to leave cause let’s say there one problem u have with a guy u just get up and leave he does help out a lot he plays with the kids he helps cook and clean he talk things through together maybe I just need help understanding where he coming from what he saying cause I have hard time understanding things.

Well they live here with me and we change each other kids diapers but I just wanted to see what he coming from I just wanted to shower and he wasn’t busy at all to change there butt and we want to integrate eachother in our life of things he is a great guy just some time I need to explain things better on here or I just need help from u guys help me understand where he coming from or what did I do wrong while I was showering maybe I need help to explain things better to him that’s why talk on here maybe I just need some ideas I do have a processing disorder I do have the miss communication of hearing things right or wrong what’s wrong to talk to people what u feeling as well also to ur spouse to come up with a suggestion not put people down

I’ll tell u good things he does helps me around the house since we been together he helps cook he plays with the kids with me when he home we play games with the kids he talk things out and I have hard time explaining things to him and understanding what he saying we talk about things he did take 2 hours to admit his fault but took him 2 hours see his fault what he did and I took my blame as well in it he gives massages if I ask for one just I’m just having a hard time some times I need some pointers had bad relationship in the past so I have a hard time trusting guys since I never had a guy in the past treat me well then this guy does it’s hard to explain when ur not in the relationship

I want a suggestion what to do and what to say to my man I do have a hard time myself communicating dry well I want to make sure I’m saying things the right way and take 2 to tango I just need help how to talk and communicate better I just need help cause I been having trouble with my last ex husband maybe it’s my fault of it all cause I have a hard time explaining things clearly

@anacort, clearly. But honestly it seems like nothing but craziness.

@penelope127, why

@anacort, you guys keep having the same fight 2 days in a row all because you want to shower. It is wrong of him to place blame on your oldest for just trying to help out. If he just changed the diaper like a grown up, you wouldn’t be seeing how much he sucks right now.

@penelope127, because it taken us two days to discuss it

@raisingblueyedbabiesx2, I see a pattern here.
Op opens up with an issue and leaves a question for us to state our opinion.

Many useful opinions are given. Maybe one or two blunt replies.

Op replies with what does it even mean questions or goes on a defense about set issue/partner.

@icebergahead its never ending
Lol

@icebergahead, huh

What that mean?