Exactly. I only use these because no one knows me so I can be myself and we're all moms here but my regular social media is filled w everyone from high school and a whole bunch of ppl who don't deserve to follow my life. So they can just gossip amongst one another like omg girl did u see she posted she's pregnant by a new man lol im good.

@locdqueen yeah, you don't need those kind of people knowing your business

I've been on here since like 2016 and I've gotten to know a few ladies really well. I feel comfortable sharing my life on here because they don't know anyone I know and aren't gonna be spreading gossip to my family or ppl I went to school with lol. I only talk to my church family in real life and they aren't about that gossip life. They're all so positive and I only want to be around people like that. I only see my family (aunt's, uncle's, cousins) once a year because of how toxic they are. I see my parents and grandparents atleast once a month, they're really the only ppl that matter to me besides my husband and kids and church family of course. I just don't see a reason to be on Facebook or Instagram.

@heatherlou88 yea this is like my diary here lol nobody really is that zoned in on what I'm talking about here and like u said they don't know anyone I know personally so no one can gossip about me. I'm private. I use my other social media but I don't post like personal stuff. I have a few friends I told personally and my coworkers are like my fam so my whole school knows including my boss and that's it. I waited until I was 8 months to post my last baby and someone was like way to keep a secret and im like how dare u assume my intimate private life is a secret and this is why I'm nt sharing this time.