How about somewhere in between? I’m a fan of age gaps so you have some time with your baby before welcoming a new baby. It’s hard when you have to share your attention. But it also depends on your age, your personal situation, and how you want your family to grow. I’m done having kids but if I had a third I would’ve wanted one around now. Like 2-3 years apart is good.

Honestly no difference to me .. I got pregnant with my son wen my daughter was like 7.5 months and at first it was hard for a month or two cuz she was too rough but she loves him and they play together and stuff now .!