What truly sucks is mentally i was doing so well, physically I'm losing weight and feeling great, because my anxiety has been good. Then my parents inform me they're allowing my sister to come back home with her dog whom she never takes care of leaves for hours on end. And now I'm faced with figuring out about moving because I can not deal with my drug addiction sister. I did it for the past 5 months I'm not going back there again. All I think about is dishes going missing again, towels hoarded up in her room with pee and poop from her dog because she's a crap owner. My parents saying she can come back but not the dog and now the dog can. I'm beyond hurt, and disappointed about how they added my brother and I in a group text to tell us. To top it off they live three hours away now so basically we get to deal with her ourselves. Great parents I have. Im emotionally drained! All they do is give in to her she is turning 21 this month she is grown. She's a druggy she knows how to manipulate so that's cool. Glad she is more important than my child their grandchild!!!! We are only here until we find our own place i appreciate them letting us live here, but they pushed me to far this time. Our relationship will be strained after this. Idk how it won't with them choosing her and her dog over their two kids who actually have it together!
Yep she does and my mom did call. A few weeks ago they're only picking up felony warrants right now due to the virus, and hers is misdemeanor I guess so there is absolutely nothing they can do atm.
If she is truly and addict your parents allowing her to keep coming back is enabling her. I hate to say this but you may have to bury your sister sooner rather than later. Addiction is a hell of a disease and the only thing friends and family can do is not enable her.
Yeah they choose to keep doing just that unfortunately. They say it's to keep her safe because she came up with some sob story about being homeless soon. 🙄 yet they now live three hours away and im not about to he babysitting her and watching her every move so it will be better to just move out and call it a day. It would make sense if they were up here to deal with her themselves but they're not so basically it got tossed on my brother and I.
Does she still have that warrant? Call the cops when she shows up.