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TMI question but just out of curiosity, how often do you have sexy time with your SO? If you don’t want to answer the question or you don’t agree with my question then SCROLL ON because guess what, sex is normal and natural. 🙄 I’ll start, once a week. I know, I know, my sex life sucks 😩

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— Lol same as u most of the time , sometimes a week can go by too. Unfortunately .

— @bbgirlmama, it’s horrible , we need to fix it. I jus have no energy and i don’t feel sexy and i take a while to get in the mood

— @itsamemario, I feel like as women that’s common to feel “unsexy” but our men think we’re the sexiest people that walk this earth but to us we don’t feel it. Sucks being a woman sometimes.

— @bbgirlmama, very very true

— Mine is once in a while, lol. Having kids destroyed my libido.

— Yes! I guess that’s why I asked the question. My sex drive is just not what it used to be and I feel like I’m alone in that. Glad to know I’m not the only one.

— At least once a week

— Oh I’m so glad to know I’m not the only one!

— @bbgirlmama, lmao 😂 anything less i would complain

— @billnyetherussianspy, right? 😂

— 3xs a week at minum, 5 days a week at max.

— @bbgirlmama 13 years together, married 10 1/2 years.

— After baby goals 😂

— @witchyxmomx4, that is seriously awesome. It seems like the divorce rate is so high anymore. I’m glad to know that someone is still in love after having 4 kids and 10 years of marriage. Goals!

— Ours is normally about once a week (hubby doesn’t have a crazy high libido) but my anti anxieties are KILLING my sex drive. It’s been weeks and I couldn’t care less lol

— @spookylyn May I ask you a question please? You can choose not to answer. What med are you taking? We haven't since May, pelvic rest and I could care less. I think part of it is my anti anxiety meds.

— @snarfyk, sertraline or whatever it’s called. I’m normally on cipralex but can’t be on that when pregnant/breastfeeding b

— @spookylyn I'm taking Zoloft as well. Interesting,must be why my DH and I haven't been intimate since May (due to pelvic rest) and it doesn't bother me. I was convinced I was turning into a Nun😂. Thank you for solving the mysteries of life.

— every day 😂

— Girl how?!? Lol

— @missrinaa, i didn’t realize how infrequently couples (or at least parent couples) had sex until this app 😂 seems normal to me. but we’ve only been together for a year and a half so there’s still time for things to change lmao.

— @avalunasmama, My kid has broken me down. I have no energy, I just want to sleep 😂. I’m kidding. But sometimes I’m just not in the mood. I had sex more often when I was pregnant than now. I posted a similar status and most people said 1-4x a week actually!

— Every 1-3 days.

— @bbgirlmama, I could go once a month. 😂

— @scream.queen, same. 😂

— @scream.queen, well sometimes. Mainly when my husband pisses me off 😂😂

— Usually only half way care about sex during ovulation. So 3-5 time a week during two week time period lol

— Do you not have a sex drive? I don’t. It was good before kids but now I don’t want it anymore

— @bbgirlmama, like zero sex drive! It was fine before I had my daughter.

— The least is 5 days a week.

— Like once a month. But I’m also usually in a lot of pain.

— 3-5 times a week if up to him everyday prob more than once a day lol

— Every other day to every 3 days. Give or take. Sometimes we will go daily, other times we will go a week without it.

— 2-3 times per week. We work opposite times (I’m an Instructional Assistant at a middle school and work during the day and my husband is a custodian for an elementary school in the same district as me and works at night) and only have time on the weekends once our baby girl is in bed.

— 1-3 times a week

— His drive is lower then mine so not often

— everyday lol

— @bbgirlmama, bedtime lol. all of them go to bed at the same time so it kinda makes it easier. on weekends when they’re home we just have a quickie when the baby naps and the kids are busy playing doing their thing lol.

— @coffeebean, have your kids ever walked in on you? It’s happened to us once 😂

— @bbgirlmama, not yet but i’m terrified of it happening 😂😂 i can imagine how you felt in that moment. talk about a serious mood kill 😂 i’d be like “well.. can’t ever have sex again now. that’s ruined” 😂😂

— once a week is a lot compared to my once a month and sometimes less often than that, like 10 times a year? y'all are very lucky

— @dankerson, awww that’s too bad. Maybe you guys need to go to counseling. How old is he?

— @bbgirlmama yeah we definitely could benefit from counseling but I don't see him doing that. he turns 50 this year so I've just accepted that I'm going to have the sex life of an old lady as long as we're together

— @dankerson, maybe he needs to see a doctor and can get some medicine for it.

— Sadly it’s only been like 1-2 times every 1-2 weeks. But last week twice so 🥳😂. I’m just not in the mood sometimes tbh but working on it.

— A good week 1-2 times a day, and a off weekend about every other day... my hubby and I have high sex drives 😆😆 specially him lmao

— Dang girl!

— 1 to 2 times a week

— I shoot for once a week. After having 2 kids I’m just not really in the mood. But he would do it everyday if he could!

— My husband is a sex machine! He always wants it and when he gets off work I’m either too tired or I just don’t want to be touched because my kids have been climbing on me all day so we only have sex once a week.

— @bbgirlmama, same. I don’t want to be touched. My son is still nursing and after dealing with both of them all day I just need my space.

— Everyday or every other! After LO is asleep, we enjoy time together 😬

— 3-4x a week most weeks

— Ours just depends on what’s going on lol sometimes kids are sick, my period or we’re just too tired . We sometimes go thru phases where we’ll do it a lot and not so much weeks later . But for a little while now about 3-4 xs a week lol

— Like once a month. MAYBE. Our daughter doesnt stay down long enough for us to do anything, and both of our libidos are shot AF. I work nights 6 days a week and he works days 5 days a week so were both usually are too busy, the kids are up, or im napping before work.

— Atleast 3 times a week.

— Usually 4/5 times a week but it's usually in the morning because we never know when Greyson will come in our room at night.

— Not very often which has caused some issues . No cheating but a lot of arguing. We are working on it though. Well I should say I'm working on it ... He's also having issues down there that's being seen so I guess it can go either way. For now it's like 1 time a week or 1 time every 2 weeks. A lot of the time I'm not in the mood or don't want to be touched. I'm also 19 weeks pregnant which makes everything look and feel and sound nasty lol

— We work opposite shifts, last week it was like 5. Somehow twice in one day. This week, it’s only been once. So it varies 🤷🏻‍♀️