amelliaholmes1457
Summer Holmes
Hi ladies it's been a long time. I have a question so my 7 year old thinks it's ok to whine and pout and throws a fit to technically to get her way we've all tried to spank her and talk to her and along ground her but it just seems go her like it never stops shes ok in school but once she gets home it's like she turns into a bratty spoiled rotten kid. So now I'm lost and confused on what to do.
02.02.2020
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boymama523
I don’t disagree with spanking. The previous comments are right about talking first to see why she’s acting that way. If things are going well in school, her needs are all being met and she’s being a brat then sometimes kids need that kind of punishment. You have to be consistent or she’ll whine and pout until she gets her way. Give her a chance to be better or there’s consequences. If she doesn’t turn the attitude around then she gets the punishment. Right after you tell her clearly why she got the punishment and tell her you love her and want her to make better choices. Ask her to apologize. If she doesn’t then the punishment is not over. Never punish out of anger, only out of love to guide her in the way she needs to go. You know her better than all of us, some kids need extra love time and affection, she could be acting out to get those things from you, so try to prevent the behavior.
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kush_queen420
Make her butt a naughty step and when she starts up make her get on it even when y’all go out somewhere everytime she gets up start her time over or take all her stuff away make her earn it back along with tv time or tablets/games she will think twice after that lol
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beetlejuice_beetlejuice_beetlejuice
Instead of resorting to punishments right away, talk to your child. You're lost because you ran out of punishments.
Talk first, get to the issue instead of raising your hand.
Talk first, get to the issue instead of raising your hand.
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amelliaholmes1457
I have and she keeps giving me the answer IDK and I'm trying to talk to her but I keep getting idk.
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aveyandindysmama
have you tried sitting her down and talking to her about what she’s feeling, why she’s acting that way? if you can have this conversation you could potentially help her find other, more healthy, coping mechanisms. she might be struggling with kids at school, her class work, or her teacher, or something else along those lines. i wouldn’t be so quick to chalk it up to being spoiled and bratty. remember that kids have the same emotions we do but not the experience we have to know how to express them and you have to teach her how to reflect, cope and appropriately express her feelings rather than hitting her, punishing her and making her feel invalid.
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amelliaholmes1457
I have we all have. But its when she wants a piece of candy or a toy and we've all told her that we only have the money for food and told her that she cant and she would throw a fit over it and non stop big us about it when we told her no and we would ask her why do you throw a fit over something we told her that she couldnt have and she tells us idk. Yea we do talk to her about school and what's bothering her in school and then we talk about it on how to fix it and she should do. When she wants something I try to see if she would try something with it and she would throw a fit about it and I would tell her in a firm voice ok hear you got it an now please stop and she would walk off pouting and moaning and still throwing that fit and I would go in there and ask her why do you throw those fits when I told ok I'll do it and she would always say idk or you dont listen and I told her that I do I just wanted you try something with it and she threw a fit about it.
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